I'm really shy!?

Question

There's a boy at college that i really like and I think he like me to (but I might be getting the wrong impression) how do I go up to him and say 'Hey think your really nice, fancy a drink?' I'm very shya nd don't wnat to make an idiot of myself.
Any Suggestions????

Answer 1

just make conversation wi him build ur confidence up then ask him straight out ull not make ursen look stupid believe me love dont worry bout it u dont get wat u want till u ask try it i think ull b pleasently suprised

good luck babe
let me no how it goes hun. Xxx

Answer 2

Same thing happened to me once. I liked this guy from Comm. Class and i could have swore that he liked me too. We were always taking glances at each other, and our eyes would meet very frequently, which made me really nervous since I am very shy too. He always said "hi" to me and smile at me every time we ran into each other, even though we didn't really know each other, we were just classmates.

The thing is... nothing ever happened, and I would always regret not having enough courage to pursue at least a longer conversation with him. Maybe he was shy too.

I hope this doesn't happen to you too. Make up some simple excuse to approach him. Questions are always a good one. Ask him something, a question that involves a long answer. "Casual" is the best way to approach someone. Don´t be afraid. If you think he likes you too.. you are probably right !

The truly fools are those who have never made a fool out of themselves.

Answer 3

A woman with innitative, thats rare. Either way I always recomend a funny opening, think of something that you know will make him laugh talk to him a bit and if he is actually interested he will ask you. If he is also shy then you will probable go to deep long uncomfortable silence unless you can keep up the conversation ask (with an I am having the greatest time in the world smile: we should go dink something and talk a little more).

And here is a tip, you know the usual: "So tell me a bit about yourself"? well don't mess things up with that usually the answer is: erm arm...hum...I play basketball... ... ..." so instead if he looks like a a pc wiz ask him about it, is he a sportslike? ask him what he plays. Asks based on what you see and of course if its about us and what we like we can talk for hours. and thats when you break and say lets go for a drink. Well good luck and happy hunting.

Answer 4

Just go up to him and say "Hey think your really nice, fancy a drink?"

Fact is,making yourself look like an idiot is the best remedy to overcome your shyness. The more you look like an idiot,you bolder you get. But take calculated risk tho'...

What's more,you might not be an idiot after all, when he is indeed interested in you!

All the best!

Answer 5

Why don’t you start by saying hello and see if he responds to you then after a while why don’t you start saying how are you and then every now and then keep adding to the conversation. Because you don’t want to start of asking him out because he might think you a little forward. Then depending on how he has been responding one day just casually mention if he fancies going out for a drink somewhere, and hopefully he will say yes

Answer 6

In love it is not so easy when you are shy but have patience and go to him for some work and thank him and you are nice and I like you. After some time again go to him and say what you think about him. If he to thinks same way he will respond positively.

Answer 7

Like someone said here, spark up a convosation about something you like and when you get enough courage, ask him. If your really shy, keep talking to him for about a week or something like that, then ask him. Your confidence will be so high, even if he says no x

Good Luck with it x

Answer 8

Try not to be so self concious. Don't worry about looking like an idiot. I do it all the time! You get used to it after a while.

Answer 9

I would just start with "hi" and then see what happens from there. Start a conversation with something you have in common... or with something in general. See what his reaction is. Perhaps you will have a conversation and find you have something in common. Then you will know if you want to spend more time with him or not.

Answer 10

Just get him talking and it will come naturally bring up a mad night out you've had or get talking about drinking in general then say "you should come for a bevvy with me for a laugh" or make out your mad when your drunk and he will ask you even if at first for a laugh

Answer 11

I would just suck it up and go talk to him. Don't even jump into the conversation. I am very shy myself. Get the confidence and exchange email/phone number/IM and talk to him first. Then we you are most comfortable, ask him.