i want to help him feel better about our relationship but i dont want to seem pushy and make him uncomfortible...any advice for me>
2006-12-05 01:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by kmg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been married for 3 years. My husband is the same way. Sometimes, it's better to give each other personal space
2006-12-05 01:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Brand X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well pushy or not I've learned a lot about communication in the last 5 years.
I think the best way to go about it, is tell him exactly how it is. Tell him he seems upset and if so, you would love to work it out cause your going mad trying to please him and find out what you can do to make him feel better.
Communication is huge. Doesn't matter who starts it as long as someone does. A lack of arguing, (even tame arguing) is a good sign that there isnt good communication.
2006-12-05 09:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ PeeJ ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm its anything or nothing..have you been together long term if so he is probably bored or even worse he may be seeing someone else..you don't really know you need to ask him not demand whats up.bring him out for a drink and over a shandy or two talk to him have you stopped doing things together it might help to make him laugh and have a day trip some ware or summit..
2006-12-05 09:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And he could just be doing it to get more attention. To some, negative attention is better than what they are receiving at the time. It's a mental defect and will be there for ever.
2006-12-05 09:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to hold back... Some guys can't explain issues... And need to find their way by themselves... Just offer to be there when he is ready to talk, but don't push it... If you do, that could end the relationship...
2006-12-05 09:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that being together means sharing everything and that includes one another's problem/ burden. It is better for him to share his problem/worries with you now, than to accumulate them inside of him and for them explode one day and say "Honey,sorry for venting my anger at you. It will never happen again."
But then again,before you say that,you have to be sure you are all ready to share his problems because they are simply going to add on to your current burdens.
2006-12-05 09:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesnt want to tell you just wait intil he is ready to talk and just be all ears when he comes around
2006-12-05 09:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sweet and entice him into opening up,that is what girlfriends are for
2006-12-05 09:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It MIGHT be your spelling he's upset with.
2006-12-05 09:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hug him first, then ask, he'll tell you
2006-12-05 09:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋