Mr. X knows Ms. Y for about seven months. They hit it off and spent a lot of time together in the past few months. Mr. X does not want to be into a relationship, and Ms Y isn't sure she wants to either.
Mr. X is seeing another girl, Ms Z. This Ms Z lives in another city, so Mr. X does not see her often. Ms Y can see other people too. This always creates friction. Ms. Z profoundly hates Ms Y, and Ms Y is not too fond of Ms. Z either.
Mr. X calls Ms. Y every day. He often comes to see her. He always tells her how she's cute and everything. He takes care of her and helps her when she needs him. He sometimes calls in the middle of the night after he went out with friends. He apparently cuddles with her every time he comes to see her.
In your honest opinion, based on thse very small facts, is Mr. X playing with Ms Y? What's Ms. Z's involvement?
2006-12-05 00:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by Emery 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well as im sure you know,,,hes playing games with both of you women,,and you both are letting him. So of course hes gonna have his cake and eat it too. Why would you even have yourself in that position,,and yes im quite sure u r talking about yourself somewhere in this equasion. Find a man whos only true to you and noone else. Thats just crazy. You both must be looking like real fools to this jerk. Have some respect for yourself and find a man whos going to respect you.
2006-12-05 00:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from sounding really complicated mathematically, the bottom line is that is Ms. Y doesn't pressure to get a deal done, than Mr. X thinks that he can have his cake and eat it too. When a man really wants to be with a woman, a few miles distance will not stop him from being there. That's the bottom line. Don't waste your time waiting for this guy. Be friends, but in the end, it there doesn't seem to be a deal in the making, move on.
2006-12-05 08:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ASSume that "mr x" is playing with anyone? Right from the start YOU said "Mr. X does not want to be into a relationship,". Not wanting to be in a relationship doesn't mean he doesn't want to enjoy the company of his female friends, that doesn't mean he doesn't want to be there when his friends are down (by the way this is pretty much what friends do). Maybe the "narrator" of this situation needs to learn what frienships and committed relationships are.
2006-12-05 08:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that Ms Y gets rid of Mr X as he has no intentions in treating her the way she deserves to be treated get out b4 you get hurt.
2006-12-05 08:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's showing disrespect for both Ms Y and Ms Z.
2006-12-05 08:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by adeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr.X Is just a player. He doesn't want a relationship with anyone, because he wants to be with everyone. Ms.Z is just one of his companions. He is a user.
2006-12-05 08:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about having your cake and eating it........plain and simple.
One or both of these women should cut him out for being dishonest and deceitful.
2006-12-05 08:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with all these diseases out here right now I would be very careful
2006-12-05 08:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by METOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋