My boyfriend said he loved me, we go to the same small school and he calls everyday for bout an hour. He smokes and i try to get him to quit and then he drinks and whatever else. But he is such a liar. He said he doesn't smoke at school and he can kill anybody and he always cusses me out and tries to start fights and goes on dates with other girls and calls my friends bitches and he makes me feel so low, i know ur thinking why don't you just leave him? But just listen to my story- then today he gave my 13 year old brother 2 cigerets and pursuaded him to smoke. then he did and when i went to his class to yell at him and his friends, he looked at me with this evil stare that had writen "i told u i can destroy peoples life" i told him its over and cried all the way till i got home. He's such an asshole and now everyones talking about me crying. Just all i need to know is why r boys heartless????
2006-12-05 00:24:21 · 19 answers · asked by Zoey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys are never heartless. Nevertheless vice versa is true, mostly. He is just not interested in you and you are trying to pile on to him (sorry for being little rude, but i also had to deal with couple of girls like you). Boys don't want to be rude but they give enough signal for you to understand that you are not desired. Spare him and let him live his life the way he wants
2006-12-05 00:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by praveen_silicon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you seem to be a grown up girl.
Boys are not heartless, at least not all of them. I belive you don't think that of your father or your brother and of some boy friends you got. Girls may be heartless as well sometimes. It's just a human nature one is born with or acquires due to psychological issues.
Your ex-boyfriend :) may have a serious problem to make him act this way, whether he is aware of it or not, he's not perfectly sane, trust me.
About the school talking of you crying, don't worry, it'll all go, ppl like to gossip about anything tyhey see or hear, at least you were honest with your expression and you have feelings inside..
hang on, girl, you deserve what's better! :)
2006-12-05 00:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunny...dump him! Hes such a loser! Maybe if you leave...FOR GOOD! He realize what a fricken idiot he is for loosing such a wonderful thing...im going through the same thing right now...my boyfriend is SUCH a liar...he told me that he loved me but goes around at school telling everyone he hates me and hes just so disrespectful....so huny i know EXACTLY what your going through.....stay strong and say bye-bye....whether you love him or not....you dont need to be with a guy like that....and boys are heartless because they are...
2006-12-05 00:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, you need to know that every boy is not as heartless as your bf. I think he's unhappy with his own life or about himself, and that's why he wants others to be like him. It'll hurt you for a while, but eventually you'll be able to see people more clearly. Learn from this experience, and grow from it. You will meet a really nice guy. Don't be disappointed in guys just because of this one. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-12-05 00:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by CRT 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly its in our nature. Boys that are nice get accused of being gay or get beat up. They are taught from a very young age not to cry and to toughen up. Not everyone falls into this trap though and there plenty of nice boys out there, they are just hard to find because they are hiding from the mean ones.
2006-12-05 00:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey luv i just wanna say guys are not all heartless although most act like they are so they wont get hurt wen a girl leaves them that and the fact that he is wanting to be a bad boy trying to look tough but it usually means he is the biggest pussy on his own all you need to realise is he has lost you the only gal that would truly care for him all ha will get from now on is stupid Lil skanks that will use him for there own gain and you will meet a real man who will love and care for you like you deserve
2006-12-05 00:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dean H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They like to act tough in front of their friends. However, they know that they are not. He just wanted to put on a show for his friends. Ditch him and stay away from him. Also tell your parents or some adult about those cigs. Hell get what he deserves
2006-12-05 00:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie G 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are heartless ppl everywhere. This kid is a pussy, cuz he's picking on a girl and a 13 year old boy. Nobody can intimidate you unless you LET them. Dump his stupid ***.
2006-12-05 00:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zoey, why are you being a doormat for this TOTAL JERK? Yea you canget alot of attention from friends over his abuse of you.If you don't DO SOMETHING about your sitiuation their sympathy will soon turn into indifference. Be strong Zoey, good luck..
2006-12-05 00:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋