2006-12-05 00:18:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, at this point you should know the things that turn each other on and I assume that you have both explored those things so try to find some new things.
Try watching porn together, that turns a lot of people on and even if it's not your thing it can help to give you new ideas for things that you can do in the bedroom to spice things up. Visit adult stores together, there are lots of "toys" for both genders that can really help to make things more exciting in the bedroom.
Lastly consider bringing other people in to the bedroom. This is only acceptable if both partners agree to it wholeheartedly and must be done safely but it can add another whole dimension to your sex by introducing you to new things and letting you participate in exhibitionism and voyeurism at the same time.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 00:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
The sex has gone pretty stale in my relationship of 7 years - if you don't do something about it now it'll get worse! You'll end like up like me having one night stands. Dress up - watch porn - just try things you thought you would never - get toys etc . .
Good luck x
2006-12-05 08:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to bring back the romance
Work on you foreplay and make it last a bit longer.
I heard durex have a new vibrating ring-try that.
Try having sex in a place where you may get caught..it adds a a bit if thrill
strip dance for each other
Have sex toys
or alcohol
2006-12-05 08:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lil CeeCee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spice it up... teace there girl or man.. like do things slowly with pastion.. and the best sexual thing for me is wen the man has clothes and so does the girl and they just hug lying dwn squesing each other its the connection u feel.. or you could go to Anne summers and buy some things like exciting stuff.. there is lots of things u can buy these days to spice up the realtionshipship take her or him on a trip.. or a hotel room with roses on the bed wine... hot bath for u both to share and soo on.. i hope i helped u X
2006-12-05 09:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..in a relationship you tend to get all excited bout sex the first days/months...and the more u do it..becomes so predictible and is not "fun" anymore coz its the same ol ways..
to keep the heat up...give ureself time to chill for a while...i mean..not all day evryday..and also the place..different places...
all in all...we do loose interest in all we do in the long run..
2006-12-05 08:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it? Its because you are not genuinely trying - ask all the bloke who are forever engrossed with football, we never get tired - even if the World Cup wer to be held every weekend - So wat im saying is dont give it the chance to bore you.....keep on going and try out a suprise every time
2006-12-05 08:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mekusweat82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something new, even if it's tiny, every single time. Also sex isn't that good on it's own but if it is built up good it will feel..really good. So try a lot of foreplay.
2006-12-05 08:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't start having sex early on in the relationship. Let the relationship itself build and grow and mature before becoming sexually intimate.
2006-12-05 08:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what any guy must do...just enjoy the many different positions that there may doneto keep sex from going staley. Ours is still in the oven...burning love.
2006-12-05 08:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by featherdude 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep adding new things to it. experiment. by a book of different positions, they are fun lol. use toys. by a maids costume or a nurses costume and role play. it all works. dont be afraid to spice it up. it will turn into a whole new relationship, it will feel like it is the beginning. i have been in my relationship for ten years and trust me they work lol.
2006-12-05 08:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by dmpabab3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋