I still love my ex , but she seems to want to me only as a friend now, not anymore as a boyfriend. She doesn't even want to kiss me on my lips anymore..She does greet me like she would do with a good colleague. a kiss on the cheek or a hug.. yesterday, she was angry at me, because I tried to kiss her on the lips at her office (we used to that all the time in the past).when I ask her why, she said well, if someone else comes here next week and try to kiss like that also, so people will know I have more than one guy in my life ..(She was talking about her prospective new bf, with whom she is planning to have a relationship soon)..I was disapointed, feeling weird and even cried and I disappeared from her room ... Should I finally move on for real in that situation or try to get her back ..? I still love her ..
2006-12-05 00:10:56 · 16 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry - but she is GONE-- and you have to get over her now, she is telling you that there is another guy in her life - she couldn't be more honest - so stop torturing yourself and come to the realization that she is NO LONGER YOURS AND DOESNT LOVE YOU ANYMORE- and move on-- there are a lot of girls out there -- start going out and move on-- and try not to fall for the same type as your ex---, we all tend to gravitate to the mate that is totally wrong for us so date the opposite of your ex-- you may be pleasantly surprised that she may be more your type than you thought. Good luck--------
2006-12-05 00:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I think you should just move on.. If she has no more feelings for you then you should let her go.. You also have to accept if she likes someone new now.. I know that it will take some time for you to move on but that's life and thats the way it is.. That's part of love.. In love, you forgive and forget.. If you really love her then let her go.. Tell you what, JUST MOVE ON and find someone new.. She's not the only girl and maybe you guys aren't meant for each other.. You never know man! There's a lot of fish in the sea so try harder. I'm not saying, you find someone new right away.. Take a break for a while and i'm sure you'll get over with it..
2006-12-05 00:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by swimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing though that you're trying to figure out what to do. You already know the answer. It's eally time to move on since your ex seems doing well and you should too. You're getting left behind. You often have to accept the reality that once the heart is broken, no matter how much love you give the person, he/she might not love you again the same way. If you're ready, date another girl but for the meantime, give your heart a the time to heal.
2006-12-05 00:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that you need to look a little closer at your question, in that she is your EX. That means EX-girlfriend, the relationship is over, she wants to move on with someone else, she is NOT interested in you any longer. Don't be kissing her, it's not acceptable any longer. If you want to be depressed over it, that's YOUR problem not hers. If you want to stand up and be a man then move on, find someone else to be interested in and leave her alone. I don't blame her for being mad with you.
By the way, I've just read some of you're other questions on this subject. You need to stop obsessing about this relationship. It's over, find something else to do.
2006-12-05 00:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let it go, do not try to get her back, she made clear she really doesn't want that. It might be hard, but fighting for her, seems like a lost thing, so you might as well move on.
I know you love her, but if you keep trying this thing, you will end up hurt and maybe she 2. I know this is not going to be easy, but you should just let her get on with her own life and you with yours.
I wish you the best of luck.....
2006-12-05 00:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly u ought to nonetheless do have filling for him an do purely no longer choose to admit it, then you ought to easily no longer choose to work out him happy because of the fact yall are no longer mutually now there are 2 issues you're able to do once you notice him an you fill such as you have become jealous discover some thing else to seem at or accomplish that as which you relatively choose enable what they are doing get to you an u can discover you a sparkling chum an spend time wiht him to maintain your innovations off the previous .
2016-10-04 21:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you.
You decide whether you want to fight for her and get her back, or let her go, get over it, and move on with your life.
Also, generally speaking, kissing on lips in the office is a major coworker relationship no-no.
2006-12-05 00:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, ex means just that. She isn't interested in you in the same way you are in her. You should have moved on as soon as she became your ex. Just because YOU are willing to waste your time pining away for her doesn't mean she has been or has to do the same over you. She doesn't want you, take the hint.
2006-12-05 00:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If she wants that relationship, let her have it. If you really love her[and she sees it], maybe she'll change her mind.
And if you want her to see that you really do love her, don't try to kiss her in the lips again, just do what she wants you to do. Get over her
2006-12-05 00:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Manuel Perez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love her, eh?
Well you can go on being her friend, and you can go on trying to chase her, but dude, you have to move on.
Don't ruin your life trying to relive the 'glory old days' when you loved each other.
Time to find a new 'the one for me'. Maybe you just weren't looking hard enough.
Good luck dude. I hope you find what you're looking for.
2006-12-05 00:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by zack_falcon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋