I'm in touch with a guy either via e-mail or via IM. He doesn't always write me back right away, at times it takes about a week for me to hear from him. Last Thursday I asked him if I could chat with him last Saturday morning, and he got back telling me he wouldn't be around. I didn't hear from him again after that, although I've written him twice after receiving his brief reply last weekend. I know his work keeps him very busy and he hasn't been on line since last weekend. I'd like to ask if I should wait for him to write me back of if I should write him in a few days. Please tell me what you think I should. Thanks a lot for your help.
2006-12-04 23:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by danielle s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would wait if i was you, you have already been in touch and he has not give you a proper resonse, it sounds like he might not be interested, or he might be nervous shy or just taking you for a ride, give him a week, and if you dont hear from him you know he might possibly be not interested. also, if you have not heard fro him just send him a line saying some thing like hi hope everything is ok with you??> i know i have not heard from you in a while, you know where i am if you need me, take care
2006-12-05 00:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, it is possible he is so busy he can't write...but read between the lines here. If he was really into you, he would explain a little and he doesn't seem to, he seems to be real brief...He's not as into you as you are in him. The best way to find out is to not write until he does...and then when he does, don't let him know how much you care for him, until he lets you know. If he is real cool and talks about the weather or something, you follow suit. Treat him as he treats you. You may need to move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You have your whole life ahead of you. See what all is out there, so when you find the one you'll know it and he will feel the same about you.
2006-12-05 08:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he doesnt want to hurt your feelings but he is just not that into you. no matter how busy his work keeps him, he would find the time to send a quick response if he was really interested. just leave him alone and wait until he writes you again.
2006-12-05 08:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by yensenm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd write him but then again thats because i like to write. my sister on the other hand says you should wait for is reply and go from there.
2006-12-05 08:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest, I think you are annoying him. Pretty soon he will probably not respond at all. I'm sorry, but that's what it sounds like to me. I did the same thing to someone because I didn't want to be rude and ask them to leave me alone.
2006-12-05 08:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋