Hello,
I'm really frustrated with my life at the moment, Part of me seeks a relationship and the other half doesn't. So what is stopping me from entering a relationship.
Every year I take monthly vacations to places like Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia, Brazil and more to come. The food, the art, the nightlife....its fantastic....the elixer of life...
However, I know that I will have to give up my love of travel if I get involved with a woman. The chances of being able to take 30+ day vacations will be over as its to hard for people to be on the same page when it comes to free time, not to mention being given 30 days of leave...
Most women my age and under still want kids, a house, and all the other material needs....
I have yet to find a women who fill the bill.....I almost don't care anymore....yet the need to have a partner still comes and goes...
2006-12-04 23:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Travel (General) ➔ Other - Destinations
I'm not in the military. I'm actually a barbershop owner....
2006-12-05 00:07:42 · update #1
Your need for a relationship hasn't yet overtaken your need to do all the other things you still want to do.
Or you just haven't met the right woman yet who A> has your same interests B> has the same time to do all you want to do
I'd caution against just settling though. It usually never works, at least not to the extent where you'll be happy
2006-12-05 02:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in the military? If so marry a fellow soldier (airman, sailor, marine). If not place adds in magazines or go on-line to sites that cater to people like you. There are many women who would love to travel as you do. If you can't find someone then don't settle for a life you don't want just to be with someone. You sound content with your lifestyle and any other would not work for you.
2006-12-05 08:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by doggiebike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Slim,
You hesitate in your wish to have a women your age or under, to fill the bill.
- You do not want kids,
- You are not ready to establish a house
- You are not ready to secure the material NEEDS
You are healthy and wealthy and have no problem in the life, So you are trying to pretend having one just for fun. Have fun.
2006-12-05 09:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by mrdadoush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you weren't born a twin, triplet, or any of these the answer is yes. Relax and go with the flow when you're ready you will know.So you stay at home for two weeks of your next vacation and go to some of the night in your town or the next town over. She is probably doing the night life also.
2006-12-08 21:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be positive about your situation, there is always a partner for everyone no matter your condition or situation. Be positive don't be discouraged, it would really help you. I am in a similar situation with you but i have the belief that someday the search would be over. Just have faith in God, He made you and also made a partner for you. When you worry it means you don't trust Him, But when you trust Him He would bring her as He brought her to Adam.
Cheers
2006-12-05 08:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
common man....you like travelling...go to datebeautifulwoman.com....and meet marrizus panzarella....
buy her book to get some nice ideas about getting a date and finding out your life partner...
2006-12-05 08:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Spirit of ~^Spirituality^~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋