Earlier this year I met a girl on a dating website. We talked on the phone but never got a chance to meet. Then she stopped calling all of a sudden and called like four months later, she said that she had lost my number (everytime I called her she didn't pick up the phone) I didn't believe her but I went ahead and started talking to her again. We soon met and went out on a few dates. I really liked her but I felt that she didn't feel the same unless we were on a date but the phone conversations were dead. She then stopped calling me again so this time I said forget it. And now last week she called me and said that she really liked me but she was talking to someone else before we met and when she started catching feelings for me she was scared because she found out that she was pregnant. She says that her and the guy are done for good and she said that she wants to be with me.She also asked me should she keep the child. I told her yes but as far as going with her, I don't know
2006-12-04 23:53:29 · 13 answers · asked by D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a good friendship, man. Sounds like she could really use someone who isnt a dirtbag like the guy who got her pregnant. She has a lot of issues too, so be a REAL MAN and provide her with a stable friendship. If it progresses, great. If not, at least she had someone to lean on during her pregnancy. Remember, she probably has nothing right now and a little bit of stability will be great for both her and her baby. And next time she asks you if she should keep the baby, tell her that you cannot be involved with that decision and that she should consider seeking a professional to help her with her decision.
2006-12-05 00:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do like her than is worth it to you. She has lot going for her probable and she doesn't want to mess it up by a relationship. Ask her what do you think about use going out and how do you feel about you. If she say she lost your number it might be true, and she might not want to tell you that her phone was cut off, or she was think about you two together. Just give it one more chance you may never know, if you don't
2006-12-05 00:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question what happens when she decides to do what she did to the other guy and then turn around and do it to you.
Are you responsible for her bad choice and if she got pregnant from someone she was "talking to" then what the heck is she going to do when she "talks" to you! Use common sense and make the best choice for you! Do you think that there's another girl out there that will treat you better and be interested in you and ONLY you!! Good luck and i wish the best for you!
2006-12-05 00:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 21:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's pretty messed up. Give her space .. and perhaps for the best to move on and find some one a little less complicated and confusing.
She should have just been honest with you from the start.
2006-12-04 23:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should, but take it easy don't get to emotionally involved(if that is possible) to early. And certainly don't go throwing money her way. After about 2 mnths you should know wether she in sencere or not, i had a very similar situation, and now after a lot of heartache and suffering we are very happy together. We now have two beautiful kids.
2006-12-05 00:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by chapie2509 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bare in mind that u met through the net.and she kinda playing 'hide n seek' with u.and when she get pregnant,she then said she want to be with u.don't u think that she kinda like putting all her mess on u?my opinion is, ignore her,and go out and chill with ur other fella!or unless u wana be 'father' to the unknown-father-baby.
2006-12-05 00:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by angelbxtch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words.....STAY AWAY......this girl is trouble and in trouble....she wants and needs someone to help her and she sees you as an easy target....trust me...she will use you for what she can get and then dump you when someone she sees as better comes along...do yourself a favor and find someone you can get to know and who will really care about you not what you can do for her....good luck and stay strong....
2006-12-05 00:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh dude i am also a girl, well yeah obviously..
but i dont think she is worth keeping..
there are a bunch of girls out there.
enjoy being single u can learn more and its fun
dont rush things
trust me, there is some one out there that is more worthy than her... maybe like me hahahah joke
2006-12-04 23:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like she has a lot of problems I suggest you just stay friends with because it sounds like she is in more need of a friend not a boyfriend.
2006-12-04 23:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋