but when we met she turned out to be not to attractive. I like her personality and we talk on line but when we meet I don't feel attracted to her. What should I do?
2006-12-04 23:42:27 · 12 answers · asked by lowdowndirtyfool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys, maybe you should refrain from answering a question like this. Obviously, you have no idea of what goes on in a woman's head.
People are different online than they are in person. Do some fun things together in a friendly setup and see how you feel then. If you still don't see it going anywhere, be honest, but please don't tell her you think she's unattractive. Tell her how much you value your conversations and her friendship, that you think she's great, but that you simply don't feel like it'll go any further and you would rather just stay friends (or stop seeing each other, depending on what is true for you) than lead her on and break her heart. She'll appreciate it more than if you just leave her hanging.
2006-12-04 23:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by adeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough choice. The fact you are even asking indicates that you may be more attracted to her than you think just because you actually LIKE her. Personally, I think if I were you I would continue the relationship on a friendly basis (be careful not to lead her on) and see what happens. If that doesn't work, then just nicely cool it.
2006-12-04 23:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what, do you think?- that only because you have gone out with her you're oblidged you two to get together?:)))
you don't need to feel attracted to those you go out with or talk to
hehehheh imagine if it only was the other way round- u should be constantly turned on, where's the fun in that:)))))))))
cheers!
2006-12-04 23:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by venitoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you are those go for looks
anyway usually over the phone, if guy/ger voice sounds sweet etc..in real, he/she may not be attractive
just tell her you like to remain as friend and draw a distance between friends
2006-12-04 23:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by dior babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that has happened to a lot of people.Keep her as a friend and who knows maybe your feelings will change.
2006-12-04 23:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so have you decided to treat her just as friend or a lover. better as a friend if you don't attracted to her, and you must tell her that you treat her only as friend
2006-12-04 23:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lead her on, but if you can eventually become attracted to her then maybe you should stick at it.
harsh but be fair to her, dont lead her on and hurt her.
2006-12-04 23:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by caroline17nov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her "You are a great girl, you're funny, sweet, caring everything a guy could want...accept for that whole...face thing you got goin' on."
2006-12-04 23:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by ThisSongsForYou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be only a friend to her
2006-12-04 23:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by alone l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋