This is a real question. I am a virgin. Seriously, why is my hole open?

Question

I am not trying to be disguisting. I am just a teen and afraid to ask my mother.

Answer 1

You mean you don't have a hymen right?, well the hymen is a very delicate membrane, and can be lost as a result of activities which includes , cycling, climbing trees,brisk exercises etc, in some societies it is considered that an intact hymen indicates virginity, however it is not always true, and the hymen can be lost due to other activities also, don't be worried, hopefully u'll marry a broad minded man, who will understand. If u can't ask ur mom, u can consult a sister or an aunt, in any case we at yahoo answers are always here for you. Be happy:)

Answer 2

yes baby u are still a virgin as long as a penis has not been in your vagina i tore my hymen when i was 6. I didnt have my first sexual encounter until I was 14. But you do need to ask your mother about those kind of things because she can help you with any other issues even if you decide u want to have sex plus she will respect as her daughter trying to show her some responsibility. She may get upset or dumbfounded, but she will love you for the fact you are being open with her, because alot of young teen girls are misguided by other teens and adults!! Peer pressure is a *****, so take my advice and i'm only 23 so I can relate. Alot of teen pregnancies occur because girls never had took the time to talk to their mothers or listened to outside influences first b4 mom!! If you want to talk or have any other questions e-mail me!!

Answer 3

I am not a doctor to answer your question. But certainly I do have some information about or regarding the 'HOLE'.

This is natural for a virgin woman (young/Old) to have her hole open, but intact. what I mean "not yet invaded" Here are some explanation made by Wikipedia for your personal information.

Among human females, the hymen is a membrane, part of the vulva, which partially occludes the entrance to the vagina and which may be physically torn when the woman first engages in sexual intercourse. Hymens vary in thickness, shape, and flexibility. The presence of an intact membrane is often seen as physical evidence of virginity in the broader technical sense.

In some women the hymen is absent from birth, or sufficiently vestigial to pose no obstruction to the entryway of the vagina. The presence of a broken hymen may indicate that the vagina has been penetrated, or it may indicate damage caused by strenuous exercise or the forceful insertion of a tampon.

In contrast to the cases of an absent or partial hymen, in rare cases a woman may possess an imperforate hymen, such as prevents the release of menstrual discharge. Surgery to create an opening in the hymen is then necessary to avert deleterious health effects.

The presence of a hymen is a possible indication, but not a guarantee of virginity, given that it is speculated that some degree of sexual activity may occur without rupturing the hymen, and given that there may exist varying definitions as to the type and extent of sexual activity that is required to terminate the state of "virginity". This is further complicated by the availability of hymenorrhaphy operations to repair or replace the hymen.

In some cultures, women are not regarded as virgins after a sexual assault, but some people disavow this notion. There are also those who take this "spiritual" concept of virginity to its maximum, considering "born again virgins" to be virgins, regardless of their past sexual conduct. However, the word "chastity" is often used in this context rather than "virginity".

In males, there is no physically visible indicator of virginity.

So, it is a normal things for you to have your hole have an small opening.

Answer 4

never be afraid to ask your mother about that kinda thing first and foremost. If you have not started your menstrual cycle or you have, some women's vagina get slightly dilated depending on the flow of menstuation. Especial the first couple of years you just start your period. Also it can occur during an erotic thought or stimulation. Be proud girl, most teens I know do not pay attention to their bodies like that and they should! those are the kinda things we women have go through sometimes and your not alone.

Answer 5

It's supposed to be. The hymen is a ring of skin around the entrance to the vagina. It isn't a membrane completely covering it. Like 1% of girls have an imperforate hymen, and it's a surgerical emergency when they start having periods. The blood can't get out. so you are normal.

You can look up hymens on google images. Lots of pictures. I think you'll find you're normal

Answer 6

Some girls have much tighter hymens than others.

A hymen can be ruptured by perfectly ordinary activities like cycling or gymnastics or sports, but in all probability your is still there unless you've been using tampons. The smallest sizes of tampon won't have much effect, but if you find you need anything other than the smallest size of tampon it's probable that your hymen has been somewhat torn or worn away.

Answer 7

My hymen tore after I slid into second base for a soft ball game. It bled a bit but the gyno said everything was ok and that it was normal for a hymen to tear during physical activity.

Answer 8

It should be open and it's suppose to. But Erica it's better to ask your mother than here. Don't be afraid to ask your mother, not here. This is not a good place to go asking about those personal stuff. Don't be ashamed to your mother. She's better to ask.

Answer 9

DONT WORRY.. IT IS NOT OPEN.. YOUR VAGINA IS LIKE A TUNNEL AFTER (3 CMS ALMOST AN INCHE AND HALF) THERE IS A DELICATE PICE OF TISSUE THAT WILL OPEN WHEN U MAKE LOVE TO SOME1 FOR TEH FIRST TIME

Answer 10

10% of the female population born without hymen.