OK...I have this guy that lives with me for almost 2 years now, and I say he is my boyfriend, and was thinking he thought the same, until I read a reply he had to someone here...And also says that if its really love then a guy will commit. I love him and I want to be with him. What should I do?
2006-12-04 22:17:25 · 4 answers · asked by lile79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK...I have 3 small children that have gotten very close with him. And I am not ready to just walk away from him. But I am hurting so much right now. I have just discovered new info, such as he is registered with some b.s online that he has sent xxx photos of himself to some broad. And also, read a couple e mails he had written to his ex wife saying I am looney and how he wished he did not mess up with her and that he is still so much in love with her and all this. And at the same time, he holds me in his arms and tells me how he is so lucky to have me and how he loves me so much and this and that. I am totally confused and heart broken!!!
2006-12-04 22:36:31 · update #1
Okay Madam Doormat, wake up. He's doing what men have been for years: getting the milk without buying the cow.
You're being USED! DUH! KICK THE BUM OUT!
2006-12-04 22:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck to the 'cow' and the 'milk'...maybe he doesn't want a cow and maybe you should enjoy your life together as long as it's happy and fun. If you don't like things the way they are for a reason, then discuss it with him. If you feel the need to take it to a different level and he doesn't, then you know what you have to do! People(men and women) are different; you cannot MAKE someone do something they aren't convinced will better them in the long run. All you can do is be you and let them be themselves...and be happy you crossed paths and got a portion of them for the time alotted
2006-12-05 06:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he knows how to give advice but at the same time lives by the motto "do as I say, not as I do". Bring it up to him and see how he responds. If it means that much to you, then you owe it to yourself!
2006-12-05 06:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with voodoid, but why do the cows always give the milk for free.
2006-12-05 06:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋