2006-12-04 20:42:12 · 23 answers · asked by dweebette4lks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me try to explain it this way. I am 44 the woman that i have been seeing is 27 i met her when she was 24. . I know she cares a lot about me because I give her something she has never had' Stability. She has had a hard life. It caused her to mature early. She has been on her own since she was 13. I said all of this to say this. You never know what somebody is looking for. I don't know the guy and what he has been through. You might be it for him.If i were in your place i would give it a try just where i would know. If it works' it works. If it doesn't' it doesn't. Take a shot and see.
2006-12-04 21:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Wife is way older than me and she would will be better off answering this question than me but she brags about me all the time and the benefits of the guy would be great for you a 39 year old woman I know my wife wishes she had me when I was 19. STAMINA ...lol....
He will mature very quickly being around an adult woman and you can help mold him into the man you want him to be...trust me.
My Wife swears by me now.
Its all in your favor.
2006-12-05 04:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by tracy_baker47246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn it down just because of the age difference.
Try it.
If it works for both of you, then it's OK.
I dated a girl that was 24 when I was 48.
It didn't work out. The main reason was that we were into totally different things, talked different versions of English, didn't want to watch the same TV shows or movies, and had nothing in common.
But I tried it and it might have worked.
2006-12-05 04:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One issue that really matters are your goals and maturity. Most 19 year olds do not know what they want. On the other hand, you are probably set in your ways. I do not see this as a lasting relationship unless you both have similar goals in life other than the relationship.
Would you support him through college?
How do his parents feel about the relationship?
Were you married before?
Do you have kids?
Would your kids respect him?
2006-12-05 05:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by frank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? Do you even know that? If you want a 19 year old, you should go for it. If you want something else, you shouldn't. And don't think this is going to blossom into a long term relationship with wedding bells at the end. The 19 year old wants to get laid. He knows exactly what he wants. What do you want? Figure that out, and you'll be fine.
2006-12-05 04:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he's mature enough and looking for the same thing in a relationship then u r then y not go out with him. Just let me warn you maturity plays a big part in a relationship and i believe that both of you need to be on the same level.
2006-12-05 04:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by blo247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 year old man wants to date a 39 year old woman, either the woman looks 19 or the man wants sex.
2006-12-05 05:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our Hindu culture made social laws considering our body nature and their synchronisation. When we are hungry we only see Roti does not matter how it comes. After stomach is full we satrt analysing. Just for fun or passion we should not ignore our presence of mind. Ask your inner mind and i am sure you will get your best answer.
2006-12-05 04:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by raj30gk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does a 19 year old "DATE" a 39 year old?
What the heck do you mean by "DATE"?
Start there........
2006-12-05 04:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if he would want to date you in ten years and if you would be comfortable with that. Ultimately you have to make your own decisions as to what you think is right/
2006-12-05 04:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋