especially wot a man of 24+ should do....provided she is extremely good looking
2006-12-04 20:35:42 · 37 answers · asked by billy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HMMMMMM If I was 24 and single,
I think I would be asking how attracted!
2006-12-04 20:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her why she was divorced in the first place....
If she had a cheating husband, then it wasnt her fault, and the LORD has absolved her of the husband, as it was "his sin" and not hers.
I " would" ask her to get a blood test before you decided to persue any romantic interest with her, because a cheating husband may have inadvertently given her a disease and she may not even know it!!
If it was "her fault" then I wouldnt have anything to do with her, because the "sin" was on her, for cheating, and she bears the pentinence..and you become an adulterer if you marry her.
I would also want to know about the exhusband, and if he is still around, or in the picture, or his where abouts and if he would interfere with your marriage to her.
Being with a woman with child is not a bad thing, it makes them more mature and they know what they want...YOU! If she was faithful to her husband, then you can bet she will be faithful to you also... (Some husbands are scoundrels, and nothing can be done about them).
Investigate is all I can say, and step lightly. This is a committement for life, both you and your girlfriend and her child.
I wish you well...
Jesse
2006-12-04 20:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is entirely up to you and how you feel about her. But just remember it involves taking on a package of two you will have to make sure she can get a baby sitter for nights out. And if you fancy a cosy night in with her it will involve the child as well, at least until bedtime. And should you get more involved and fall for this lady, if you have been ignoring the child you will find it very hard to win them over if you ignored them in the beginning. So it will also mean sometimes taking mother out with child. Give this a lot of thought as this is not something you can go into lightly.
Sheila.
2006-12-04 20:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by she shaw sea shore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be real with her. What's the status of her marriage, how do you feel about her, and the kid? What is your relationship with her now like?
What I've gathered from your question, which, there wasn't much information, but she said that she's "getting attracted to you", it makes it sound like you currently have a friendly relationship but she confessed having romantic feelings. It doesn't imply that you feel the same way, want her to leave her husband, or that she intends to. If you want to salvage the friendship with her, remind her about her kid, help her figure out her situation - talk it through with her, like a friend would. Help her get objective and make the right decision.
2006-12-04 21:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Slightly Noxious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, I see your element, you've a accurate to ask such questions, yet perhaps you ought to be careful once you ask those questions. i comprehend that there are situations even as human beings question me elementary questions and that i only can not be afflicted to respond to them because i'm not interior the mood for answering questions. it may also be the actual shown truth that he's slightly smooth to different matters, like what number of human beings he's dated previously you. you should attempt to confer with him about this; as gently as plausible of route and without attempting to make it look like you're insulting him. tell him that you ask questions because you care about him and also you opt for to understand him more advantageous suited; even with each and everything, isn't the guy you're married to meant to be the only it truly is established with the most about you? although, there'll continuously be issues that you're going to save from one yet another, not because you do not think your spouse, yet because it will be embarrassing, an unimportant shown truth that doesn't favor to be shared, etc. If he's not affectionate, perhaps advise gazing a movie mutually at residing house or doing some thing both romantic? Couples oftentimes cuddle even as gazing a movie mutually and are oftentimes affectionate even as they're doing some thing romantic. although, perhaps he's only not the style to cuddle? Does he ever hug/kiss/cuddle you decrease back once you commence up those gestures? it will be the actual shown truth that he's not used to beginning them while you're and so he will reply in case you commence up? If not, then perhaps you could attempt to confer with him about this besides? even with each and everything, communication is between the major issues in a courting. try now to not say some thing that ought to look insulting because it ought to bring about yet another argument and that i'm confident yet another argument isn't what you opt for. I favor you the perfect!
2016-11-30 04:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really hard to say. Would it be worth it? Alot of people could get hurt in the long run. It depends on what you all want it to be. A fling long term etc. I guess you'll figure it out. Or let cupid take over.
2006-12-04 20:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by vickielynnperry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prob ain't getting any fun at home i am always gettin asked out by married men and it makes me mad. just because i am single they think I'm up for it i would never go with a married man the have no respect for there wife and kids so they def wouldn't have any for me she wants to sort her marriage out if she isn't happy with her husband she should leave him then date other people if that's what she wants she wants her cake and eat it using you along the way i wouldn't feel flattered wouldn't matter how fit she was have some respect for yourself there are plenty of single people out there you will only end up getting hurt by this woman
2006-12-04 20:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"provided she is extremely good looking."
What does the above have to do with it?
Is it like a BONUS of having REAL butter on your dry toast?
I can't answer your question as I'm not in your shoes nor know anything about her or her life or what her life means to her or how many games either of your play with your lives.
There are many unwritten Rules, and you know them.
So you either play within them, or not ~ or make up your own as you go along.
Your choice.
Sash.
2006-12-04 22:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is married, hope for some clandestine enjoyment without the normal baggage of commitment. Beware of single women with children, looking for a wage slave or property upgrade.
2006-12-04 21:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Clive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must know yourself whether you are attracted to her. On the whole it is just a little bit of game and sometimes it is not worth the story.If I were you I would wait for the real love it you wish to experience it, otherweise do what you want to, the consequences are for you.
2006-12-04 20:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Justine T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋