we were happy until i asked him tat question "r u misusing me"he says my words were really hurting and tat i dont trust him. now he is going away from me. he says he still cannot digest my words and tat he needs sometime if he has to come back to normal(me).also says inspite of him being so much committed to me how can i ask him such a thing?afterall we have only kissed once so he says thre s nothing wrong to blame him.i want to like how can make him forget the incident and bring him back to me?friends pls i need more answers & opinions i m totally confused?
2006-12-04 20:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by ROCK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that realy hurts ...why did you do that?! tell him you are sorry & dont ever do that again. why did you even think of that?! is he realy abusing you?! oooo my god. tell him you did`nt mean that.good luck.
2006-12-04 20:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys have a communication problem. You should both be able to share your feelings. On the other hand, you have to be careful in how you communicate. Not with attacking words. Share how you feel.
There must be a reason you feel that you are being used. If you are being used. Drop him like a hot potato.
There is also the issue of forgiveness. All relationships include getting hurt, apologizing, and forgiving one another. There can be no relationship without forgiveness.
Do not be needy! If he walks away, let him go!
2006-12-05 04:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by frank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't digest the words either!
Well, whatever you meant to ask him, you should still let him go. He will come back if he really loves you anyway. If he doesn't, then, he's not worthy of your commitment.
2006-12-05 04:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by allan.sarabia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldnt of asked him this question. you obviously hurt him and i dont blame him for saying you dont trust him, if u did then you wouldnt of asked him the question. make sure he knows how sorry you are and that your just being a worried girl. if he doesnt want to listen then chances are he isnt goin to want to try and make things work. everyone worries but sometimes you shouldnt worry out loud!
2006-12-05 04:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe all he needs is some laxatives. i have a hard time digesting words also. the chocolate ones are the best
2006-12-07 04:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by BRN305 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you found a dud. If he says that your question of missing you was hurting, he has something wrong with his head.
2006-12-05 04:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by apocolypses_solar_storm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Realize you made a mistake and move on with your life.
2006-12-05 04:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋