We going out since last 8 months.we just kiss each other.And when he asks for smooching(kissing on lips) i dont let him..If i dont let him smooch will he love me more?Or what shall i do?
But i afraid because i have heard from people that once a guy does all thi things before marriage he leaves that girl.
My bf isnt like that but still im scared
2006-12-04 20:23:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm, miss.., it is good to hear that u guys r goin on since 8months with never the crack in ur relationship. Listen dear, love do happens we never expect this in our life, but this doesn't mean that love shud be only for physical relation or just kisses n all. It has a kind of feeling which u both have in ur heart, its a kind of respect that u develop within urself for the person u love. Its true that u don't get the same passion once u did all these things before marriage, i agree. but i don't agree on this that the guy will leave u, i m not for sure, coz u know the guy much better as u r with him. Ok tell me first that did the guy started ignoring u the timed u denied him frm giving a smooch, if no, thn i can say that ur love is true and if the guy starts finding some other girl than sure he is flirting with U. So stop worrying abt ur future n live in today. See miss u never know what wrong or good can happen tomorrow. So better forget abt the future n live in present. If the guy loves u thn surely he will not ask again for that, if he, thn may be u can fill his demand but if he becomes too demanding thn seriously say no to him. Future is urs..have a goodday, take care n God bless...me..ZAID
2006-12-04 20:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by SPIDERMAN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see any problem with kissing. I can understand not wanting to kiss in front of a lot of people but there is nothing wrong with a quick peck. Pecks can be on the cheek or lips either way its not prolonged. I hope this helps.
2006-12-05 04:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine. Tell him that things stop where you want them to stop. Set up boundries. And the whole he'll leave you thing is something parents say so that their kids don't have sex. Which isn't a bad idea. Hold off on that. But if you wnat to kiss him. You can. DOn't worry. Enjoy yourself
2006-12-05 04:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by bella611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your bf isn't like that then why are you so scared?
don't you trust him?
smooching is not really a big deal and if you really are scared then dont let him get any further with you but i assure you that smooching wont get you into any trouble.
2006-12-05 04:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Don't_Blame_Me_For_Society 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more they are deprived, the more they want, just dont thirst him too much, kissing is an act of love, nothing wrong with giving kisse...
but regarding chastity or keeping your virginity untill marriage, its still a good thing, will make your husband proud of you and will respect you more. Having high standards can keep you from dating and ending up with jerks who dont deserve you.
2006-12-05 04:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Cheriluz V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...its kind of silly to be dating for 8 months and not kissing on the lips, you should give it a try...however, if you wish to wait until after marriage for intercourse, you're not alone...many people prefer to wait, and if your man truly loves you, he will understand why you want to wait. If he tries to pressure you or says soething like "if you loved me you'd do it" hes only after one thing and not worth staying with.
2006-12-05 04:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by apocolypses_solar_storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with smooching?
2006-12-05 04:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy crap!!!!! surprised that he's still with you. 8 months and not even smooching!!!! you better be worth the wait to be honest or else he will not be a happybunny
2006-12-05 04:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by husquarana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll only speak for myself. Kissing on the lips for me shows signs of affection. If she doesn't kiss me I feel unloved. But it can also be playful and be "Hard to get" Chase me for the prize deal. Not all guys are for sex they want to be with someone that loves them. Just show him you love him...not by sex but just be close.
2006-12-05 04:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Let him do whatever you feel comfortable with. If he bails before then, then he probably would have done it anyway. Don't feel as though you HAVE to do anything, it's your body.
2006-12-05 04:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋