a couple years ago my biggest crush and i hooked up a few times, we had fun, messed around and thats where it ended. well i have talked to him a few times but not much untill last night he talked to me on instant messenger and said he was still into me and has fantasized about having sex with me. and he also said that when we were together it just "felt right" and i really like him but how do i know what his intentions are? i am scared that i am really falling for this guy and he is going to break my heart
2006-12-04 20:18:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not trying to say if he is or not, because people can be really unpredictable. Maybe he really does love you, who knows... but what I can tell you is that when guys usually think about sex... its pointing towards one thing, and its not your brain...
A way you can test him is if you go on a date with him to the movies, just the movies (maybe coffee after wards), no going home, no touchy touchy
Just talk and see how he reacts when your "just trying to have a good time" with him... If you think you can restrain yourself from having sex with him. I'm not exactly sure how your feelings are towards him... so I'm not sure if the situation would work out. What I can tell you is even if you go on a good ole fashion date with the one you love, the one you truly love, its the greatest time still... even without sex.
2006-12-05 10:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by teddyrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really does care, and this is possible, of course, then he will want to wait. It concerns me that he mentioned fantasizing having sex with you if he is not actually dating you. That to me is a warning signal.
If it felt right to be with you, he will ask you out, you will hold out, and things will develop.. it's okay to feel like you are falling in love - lots of good memories, and he was your biggest crush so there's an element of "delayed gratification" that he appears to be coming to the party, so to speak. But let him COME to the party, let him eat with you, drink and speak and dance with you. Anything less, is not a party for you, my sweet, it is a path to one-man satisfaction.. not good enough for you, see?..
2006-12-04 20:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well now, guess you should buy a pack of condoms as a safe measure or if you were smart about it you can forget about him and live a happy life because this really sounds like the guy just wants to stick it ito yeh for a one night stand.
2006-12-04 20:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like that..few months ago, a guy also said that like to have fantasy like what you said. Well, guys can have sex with anyone whether they like or not, as you can see a lot of protistutes are girls but not men.
Allow both of u have more time to get along...Try to understand him better. Who knows after some time, you may realize he is not as good as you think. That was what happened to me. Good Luck!
2006-12-04 20:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by doeu81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no longer something unfeminine approximately waiting for the superb guy or woman, and saying no to others till you detect him. This guy is making you experience insecure or you will not be asking this question, superb? So, he won't be the guy who makes you experience effective in your self, and if he's not ,then he's the incorrect guy or woman to allow get right of entry to on your physique. on the price of being impolite, all adult males p.c. to kiss females. do you p.c. all adult males to kiss you? (it particularly is a huge style of bacteria!) or are you keen to be subjective, and locate the superb guy or woman on your existence??? do you p.c. somebody to particularly love, and love you, yet then he would not such as you by way of fact different adult males have been there first? you would be heart broken, and depressed if he would not love you sufficient to appreciate your previous. that's the way adult males are and while females settle for it they are going to be happier, and extra effective in making stable dating options. bypass detect a interest till you detect the superb guy or woman. extra useful to spend time including your loved ones then to wreck an entire destiny. you have have been given a protracted thank you to bypass in existence. do no longer make it extra durable.
2016-10-14 01:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's just trying to talk up on some more panties don't fall for that try communicating and see where he's coming from before you take it to the next level.
2006-12-04 20:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by TAE M. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to find out if he loves you and it isnt sex he wants is to not have sex with him and see how long he lasts. You women arent very bright.
2006-12-04 20:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having said that, he must really want to get into your pants. you would know his intentions by the way he acts. if he feels like rushing in getting you in bed, then get a hint.
2006-12-04 20:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by *fireflies* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know take a chance ask him what is it all going to be sex and then go form there not everyone is all about sex it could be more than what you think
2006-12-04 20:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by KANEBRO2DANITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is looking for a booty call, I wouldn't get my feelings involved. All of a sudden he probably isn't getting any and thinks you'll run when he calls. Weigh it out and you'll have yourself to thank for it later!
2006-12-04 20:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Pinkalious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋