Not only online, but in another country and a muslim. Im a non active christain. Is there someone who has been in this situation and married successfully, and if not why do you think it didnt work. What do you think made it work if it did?
2006-12-04 20:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by kedi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think to make an online relationship works, you need WILL and lots of TRUST. Its great that you can connect to someone so far away..i do think so . I mean, the world is the limit right? If you feel strongly for that person and feel that the bond is worth the uncertainty and initial hardship, then by all means go for it..
In order for it to work though, a concrete plan is needed and both must be willing to sacrifice A LOT of things being them coming from different background. its unfair to ask only one person to do the whole work while the other revel in his/her usual surroundings. Its not gonna be easy but all i can say is listen to the heart, if it tells you danger is ahead by all means avoid it but if it tells you 'hey this seems the right thing to do'..then you must obey that one too or live in regret.But seriously speaking, I would rather meet a person online than at a bar or something..
2006-12-04 20:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has trouble written all over it. He is from another Country - where? You don 't know him at all, he could be looking for an excuse to come to your country to stay. You are also different religions which can be trouble as well. I have heard of people who have met on the internet and have married but they just initally talked and then dated properly for two years before they got married they weren't in different countries or anything like that.
2006-12-05 04:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by nik 28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have never actually met this person, than you should be very careful. How do you really know he is who he says he is? On line is one thing, real life is another.
If you really feel this strongly, Id make sure to spend lots of time together in person before you get in too deep...like moving in, getting married.
2006-12-05 04:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by BeckyKay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TOO MANY IFS, THINGS ARE POSSIBLE AND U HAVE TO FIGURE OUT WHY THIS SOUNDS POSSIBLE? MANY PEOPLE WOULD RATHER TRUST A TOTAL STRANGER THAN AS FRIEND BECAUSE OF THE PRIOR CONFLICTS THAT COME WITH FRIENDS, FANTASIZING IS A WONDERFUL WAY TO BE BUT CAN'T BEGIN TO PUT A BAND AID ON REALITY, STAY WITH IT AND SEIZE THE MOMENT
2006-12-05 04:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any thing is possible but I don't know anyone in this situation
but I think cyber love is not honestly
on the internet U can say any lie
U can be a person that U are not him .
2006-12-05 04:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have that same thing but i fell for a guy i met online who ebcame my best friend. Love is love. No matter how you look at it.
2006-12-05 04:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by bella611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know of anyone.
2006-12-05 04:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah anything is possible.
2006-12-05 04:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible!
2006-12-05 04:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋