2006-12-04 20:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by trojan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all I am a girl and I would never like to be chatted up at the gym. It is when I look my worst! All hot and sweaty...
Maybe try and catch her beforehand and see if she would like to hook up for a drink after your workouts.
2006-12-04 20:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rosie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strike up a conversation, probably about the gym or the equipment or the magazine she's reading or music if she's listening to some or the TV show she's watching. Don't be afraid to be a little persistent if at first she seems indifferent, she probably gets hit on a lot. Be friendly and considerate and try to show her you're a good guy.
2006-12-05 04:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Slightly Noxious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy.
What are you motivations? Are you doing it because you want sex? Or because you want a genuine relationship? Is it because you want your mates to be impressed you picked up something that's pleasing to the eye? Or because you'd like to have someone you can talk to?
You need to get that sorted out first. Of course, if it's just a physical relationship you want, and that's all she wants then that'll work out fine. Just make sure you know, and I wouldn't recommend lying to yourself or anybody else about it.
I do Scientology answers to things, and there is one for this exact situation. And it's right here:
http://www.scientologyhandbook.org/SH3_3.HTM
And it applies to any situation where a person wants to get into communication with someone else.
2006-12-05 04:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by replybysteve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident, positive eye contact and be direct. say hello then ask about her, show you are interested, compliment her on something other than something obvious because of the situation ( dont say something like this: your bum looks great in those lycra pants, i love the way the sweat shows your crack)
tell her she seems really interesting and you''d love to talk to her some more, could you buy her a drink?
then flex........
2006-12-05 04:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may be shocking in an age of awful chat up lines and polished tactics, but just go up to her and talk to her! Simple! Good luck!
2006-12-05 04:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by CTU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help if you were the most gorgeous guy at the gym.
Flirt with her and try and get on the same equipment.
When you see her leaving ask if she would like a quick coffee or something..
2006-12-05 04:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by OO7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say 'Hey, you don't look like you come here often.'
2006-12-05 04:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by warren4184 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u regular here??????????
2006-12-05 04:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋