Guys Im a 18yr old female who recently found a chic who is cool and wants to sleep with! lol i need to kno whether or not i should tell my family bcuz i think this is gonna b a permenant thing b/w me and her! Everybody in my family thinks im straight. My immediate family are like crazily devout christians and i kno they will freak out! they may even put me outta tha house! should i let them know wats goin on and if u think so how should i do it?
2006-12-04 19:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by kakesofsugar and lumps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unless you are sleeping with them, you are under no obligation to tell them!
2006-12-04 19:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE.........I'LL JUMP IN A TAXI AND GET THERE AS FAST AS I CAN........YOU'RE ONE I'M GOING TO SAVE!!!!! No doubt you can tell I'm a man,........................... with a little more wisdom at this point in time. I think you've made this clear, are you doing this because of this one girl? Or, do you really feel in your heart that this will be your way of life? Is this your very first encounter?...........Or have you been fully baptized in feminine ways? To give you an honest answer in a question this life changing, I'd really need an answer to these........and a few others as well. You've lucked out.....or not, depending on how you see it,I'm a professional, I do this on a regular basis I'm not in the habit of giving out life changing advice, I made a vow not to do that...........there was something in your story that pulled at my heart strings. Why don't you cool your jets for awhile.......skin on skin is not the last great pleasure.....look at my questions.....give this some thought.......serious thought then come back...........
2006-12-04 20:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later it will come out. You are 18 and probably living at home so perhaps this may not be the best time to tell. Finish school and get your own place...job (be independent) and then you may wanna spill it to the most reasonable person in the family and see how it goes. Tough spot..you are in. wish you luck
2006-12-04 19:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you wait and see if you are sure about this relationship before you tell your family, I hope they do not put you out, you are family and family needs to be loved. I would wait and see if this is a sure thing before I tell them. Then I would just sit down and tell them. I would not do it at Christmas. Good Luck.
2006-12-04 19:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly hun, I don't think you should tell them just yet. See what happens with this girl first. And hey, you are 18 now.. your life is your life and your technically an adult, so anything you dont want to tell them isnt a bad thing. You are allowed to make your own choices and keep them to yourself. And some day when you are ready to tell them, hopefully they will accept it because they love you and want to be happy. <3
2006-12-04 19:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Naomi F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Your sexuality is none of their business. They will just think of you two as best friends..........leave it that way! You're young, you have no idea how you are going to feel in a few years. Relax, keep it to yourself and do what feels right to you.
2006-12-04 19:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell them, i dont personaly approve of it, but if someone i knew is (well...) then i'd rather know sooner than later.
2006-12-04 19:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by IHateTrolls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh its your life not theirs ,,,,,but i know christians are way diferent they wont understand for nothing in th world
2006-12-04 19:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by edgar f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋