he has txt me since and said he a had a great time etc,but nothing else,so wot now,do i ask him out again or just leave it.thankyou everyone.x
2006-12-04 19:13:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U failed to mention how long it's been, but I'll leave you with this. If you are posting your fears online, it is a clear sign you have issues of your own. Gain some confidence in yourself, you are a wonderful person. If it works it works, if not, then there are better things ahead for you. Don't lose yourself in someone else, but rather know your worth, so if he doesn't call, he wasn't the right one, but there are more waiting for you, and there are 10 times more waiting to know you.
2006-12-04 19:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do when he text you. Did you reply and say something like "so did I"? Or did you not reply at all. With these things its best to be honest only to an extent. You must not put it out there. A guy likes a sense of accomplishment. Your text should be non commital... I used to respond to my husbands text with Hmmmm. In other words no comments.
So if you need to reach him without sounding like you are trying too hard. Give hin some time, then call him and pretend you were trying to reach some one else or something like that. Chat for a very brief min and cut the line. Like you in a hurry. Say something like, please I need to call my mom, speak later and cut the line.
2006-12-05 04:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by gutsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I never went in for the playing games school of dating and much preferred being honest. It seems to have worked as now I am happily married! So work out what you want and tell him, he's a bloke, they don't pick up subtle hints or read signals!
2006-12-05 03:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how long its been since he texted you or you went out. If it has only been a couple days then wait. Dont be pushy or clingy that scares guys away. If its been a while, like over a week you might call him and ask him out for coffee.
2006-12-05 03:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont advice u 2 ask him out again but at the same time if u really enjoyed the time with him than dont deny when he ask's u out again..bcoz he may be ur guy for ever....All the best
2006-12-05 03:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Richard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you text him and ask if he would like to meet up with you again sometime as you really enjoyed his company.
2006-12-05 03:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by candyflosskid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long has it been? less than a week? wait some more. if more than a week, call him and ask him out again. guys like it when girls show some initiative.
2006-12-05 03:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha looks like he's waiting...and so are u. So yeah, if u want to see this guy again, u can try calling him (just to chat). If not, then leave it.
Its that simple.
2006-12-05 03:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would text him or call him and see if he fancies meeting up again. You have nothing to lose - good luck!
2006-12-05 03:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my guy nearly 7yrs and met him on a blind date. Goforit.
2006-12-05 03:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋