when asking a girl out on a date in high school, what should i put it so that it doesnt seem as tho im desprate or wierd?
2006-12-04 18:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You see her , make eye contact and if her's is good give her a smile as if saying hi(this is where you can make or break it!) The guy who usually turns away quickley is usually insecure. But if you continue to hold the contact to confirm hers, that shows your CONFIDENCE. From there is when you are sure that she acknowledged your smile then that's when you can go up to her and say hi , introduce yourself to her and do some small talk . Like maybe for instance ask her about her class , her day so far. Then just simply say "hey I'll see you next time, nice talking to you. Keep it short , sweet(for her) , and simple. Then next time you see her , that's when you make your MOVE. Just say this..."hey I don't have any plans on -such&such- time or day, Let's hangout. From there wherever you two go and hangout is where you can get to know her intilially and perhaps shift it to an actual date.....BUT NEVER say the word DATE! Again say , "Let's go get something to eat @ ___ on -such&such night. Dude I could go on and on.. But you get my point.
2006-12-04 18:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always very easy to win a school girl, First if you know where she follows always when she comes from school then be along that Place. Give her a normal greetings but remeber to be very soft and with smiling face, this should be twice or thrice. Next time give her even 50 bob, telling her to go buy soda, hata ndogo coz she seems so tired or look for something sweet to say or something to do to her, she'll automatically be loosened . Also remeber to appear neat. Continue doing that, give her a push at times. If you do that for a month then you'll won her and so you can date her.
But care for her life please, don't mess up with her coz she still a school girl, still very young I gues.
2006-12-05 02:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by jeyomosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make a good relationship first.it is based on your feelings that how it happens and how it begins.just think which girl you like and what you can do for her.when love begins, everything will be ok.Please be yourself and Your best approach is to be yourself, involve yourself deeply in your own hobbies and interests.these will be more influence in your contact with a girl.
2006-12-05 03:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Elham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know that girl well?
she might get freaked if it's just some random guy you know.
talk to her . then like ask her.
Hey___. im going___ at____.
i've actually got some free time in my hands. <--!
do you want to come with me
iono i would just add in that middle line. just makes it seem more..you know haha
2006-12-05 02:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name is the answer - start with "hi" and take it form there
2006-12-05 02:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like her= nothing gonna stop u to say hi
2006-12-05 02:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by veronica.miller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her sincerely...
2006-12-05 02:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋