1) People say that guys do insult you when they like you. How true is this?
2) Is it possible for a guy to not want to have a relationship with a girl he finds attractive if he is not committed to anyone?
3) How can a girl have appeal to guys or are there really girls like me who simply have NO appeal to guys?
4) When a guy stares at a girl, what is he really thinking? When a guy looks a girl from head to toe and checks out what she's wearing, what's going on in his head?
5)Why are some guys mean to girls they dont' like?
6) WHEN A GUY TELLS A GIRL STRAIGHT OUT THAT HE WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH HER AND THAT SHE SHOULDN"T HOPE FOR ANYTHING DOES IT AUTOMATICALLY MEAN HE FINDS HER UNATTRACTIVE? or could there be lots of reasons?
7) How come when a girl is interested in a guy and the guy is not, the guy avoids the girl and becomes mean to her?
2006-12-04 18:16:14 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How come when I ignore guys and play hard to get, I don't get attention but when i become friendly, I don't get attention too?
How come when I dress conservatively, guys ignore but when I dress decently sexy, I stil get ignored too?
How come no matter what I do and what I don't, guys ignore me?
2006-12-04 18:17:34 · update #1
In response to lovingang, sorry, I typed in all caps in one number. Something went wrong with my filter keys at the time. I think I pressed the shift key for more than eight seconds.
2006-12-04 18:40:28 · update #2
1) insult you? first a guy should have more respect for you...unless you mean tease...there is a difference..in that case this goes back to that elementary school teasing and poking deal but some guys still do it as they get older. Fairly true, with teasing they probably want your attention.
2) Yes, some guys and girls who are best friends--for fear of ruining the friendship..there are also other guys who are just out for meaningless physical satisfaction
3) by being comfortable to act like yourself no matter who's around you, self-confidence, being real. i'm sure you appeal to guys...either you havent met the right ones or that there's one who notices you but you dont notice him
4) probably making some judgment about her (ex. her looks, personality, how much he likes her, compares her to other girls...etc)--what's going on in his head?...lol im sure youll find out about these things eventually.
5) because they dont like them unless of course this is like question 1
6) hmm seeing that you typed that in all caps...i would say directly as it says lol maybe the girl is annoying him or that he's currently focused/interested in another girl..there could be other reasons too.
7) most likely because he's not interested :( sorry, but guys are fairly simple and straightforward most of the time with their feelings.
i would suggest finding and liking a guy who'll treat you better with more respect and not so roughly. finding your "mr. right" takes time...wont happen overnight...many women are still looking and when it happens you'll know it and he'll like you just for you...dressed up fancy/sexy or just casually. :) just remember to use your heart as well as your head in relationships and when youre in one remember that you have your own interests too-- dont always have to be same as his.
Good luck :)
...ok no worries about the caps though lol but still the same answer to your question :)
2006-12-04 18:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by lovingangel323 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's your lesson on how to deal with men... by the way, no one can figure them out!
1. Yes, this is true. Either they like you and don't know how to show it, or they like you and their friends don't so they act like jerks in front of them.
2. Yes, it's possible. Some men are only out for a little booty. Happens every day.
3. Everyone has appeal. You just have to know how to use it! :) Be confident. Love yourself and be proud of who you are. Men like that.
4. He's thinking about how to get you in bed. He doesn't care about what you're wearing. He's only interesting in what your NOT wearing.
5. Doesn't matter. If they act like that, they don't deserve you.
6. Yes. Move on. Besides, if there WERE other reasons, why waste your time trying to figure them out? There are many fish in the sea.
7. Because he doesn't know how to let you down easy, or he already has, and you won't take the hint.
It sounds to me, based of your questions, that you are interested in some guy who is not interested in you. Do yourself a favor, and move on. You're only asking for heartache. Besides, why would you want to give someone your attention when they don't deserve it? If any man ever disrespects you, let him have it, turn your back and leave his head spinning. Then look forward, because there is someone out there who will love and respect you for you! :)
2006-12-04 18:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by munkees81 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have asked too many quns. but I will try to ans. a few.
1) Maybe he is trying to tease you. But if it goes beyond the limit leave him.
2)Yes possible.
3)Cannot say.
4)Maybe something a bit related towards sex or her figure...perhaps. Some girls like this some girls don't.
5)If some guy does n't like a girl he should avoid her rather than being mean to that girl....in my opinion.
2006-12-04 18:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by shankd67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, do you have to disect everything? Have you lived your whole life based on the scientific method??
I bet you love getting into socio/political talks when out and about, huh?
OK, so I might have been b!tchy with my comments yesterday/this morning, but I think I found your problem. You analize (spelling intended) everything.
Do you ever just let things happen? Take a couple shots before going out next time and looooooosen up!!! Chill out.....let life bring you roses and take the f****n time to smell them (and don't recite what variety they are....it doesn't matter).
Cheers!!
2006-12-04 18:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most guys are dogs, really, they always want what they cant have and when they have something good they dont value it, you must be who you are, ie dont change for anyone, and eventually a person will come along who values you for who you are.
5) guys are assholes
6)it could be so many reasons, but most probably that
7)back to 5
2006-12-04 18:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by king of spain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men do not insult you, they tease you playfully when they like you.
yes it's possible
different men find different appeal in different girls
could be anything!
i'm mean to people I don't like
lots of reasons
because some girls are stalkers & crazy. you have to be very blunt or they dont take the hint.
2006-12-04 18:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) they dont
2) yes..besides looks, many things r considered
3) uhh..wats the question?
4) he likes her..or there is something wrong with the gal.. but most probably, i would say he LIKES her
5) coz they dont like them & wanna get rid of them.
6) nopes. besides looks, guys search for lotsa things in gals..
7) to get rid of her.
2006-12-04 18:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1-they are testing you to see your respond.
2-again he trying to fig-er you out.
3-yes the one will come and you will have the appeal you been waiting for.
4-boy i would like to get in her pants.or she not wort it.
5-because they have try with them. they don't give them no play.
6-he what to see if you going to sweat him that mean chase him around.
7-he want to see if your going to kiss his ***.
2006-12-04 18:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by SENSES 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys are easy to please. Show up naked, bring beer and don't stand in front of the TV. As for your question number 6; if someone is that brutally honest then it's a done deal. There is no room for discussion on this one.
2006-12-04 18:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋