i am dating a guy whom i like alot, and we always hang out. i mean we spend almost all of our spare time together. Here the problem is he never ask me to be his girlfriend so far. what would i do? keep dating or what?
2006-12-04 17:47:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you HAVE to be someone's girlfriend? Why can't you just enjoy someone as a friend? I see a number of me on a friendship only basis because I don't WANT to be anyone's "girlfriend" I enjoy being my own independent self. There is nothing wrong with just "hanging out together" that is HOW it should be for young people. This way they LEARN how to have realtionships, how to allow a relationship to grow and mature and how to take it when/if the relationship they were hoping would be doesn't become what they want. This is HOW young people can avoid getting sexually intimate WAY too soon in the relationship only to wind up pregnant and neither one of them ready or even liking each other any longer.
2006-12-04 17:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, just keep dating and be patient. Maybe your relationship is new????
You could wait awhile but, also you could ASK him to be your BF, which is ok to do! Go ahead. get his reaction!
I read alot of posts on here and many are in such a hurry tto RUSH into a relationship! There's no hurry! It's best to get to know each other and give yourselves a chance to get acquainted where you're comfortable with each other in the beginning.
Sooooo, keep dating the guy and don't get ahead of yourself. enjoy your time together and before you know it, he's gonna ask you sooner or later to take things up a notch! wait and see.
2006-12-04 17:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to be straight out
just ask him (provided you have been like this for more than a couple of weeks)
if you get the impression that he wants to keep "dating" you but doesn't want to be actual boyfriend / girlfriend then try not to get emotionally upset and just play the field for a bit.
chances are, he is probably thinking/feeling the same way you are anyway.
2006-12-04 17:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl who's cheating on her guy with better than one individual would not admire herself. Thinks little approximately herself. She made you a choose in a fashion. once you're a one lady's guy you will discover somebody a lot greater efficient. except you elect to share, yet while she had no admire for the courting no longer something will substitute that. My suggestion flow on, discover somebody greater efficient. there's a lot of fish interior the sea:)
2016-10-04 21:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is he like u a lot to but y do we have to always give a name or tell u
just kiss him the next time and if he kisses u back its obvious ok
i think u guys have somthin good goin on so dont be stupied and let things happen by there own time
if he is only seen u and no one else then he is just shy to confess thats all
2006-12-04 18:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he hasn't asked you out as a G/F doesn't mean he doesn't see you as his,I think if you are doing thing's that couple's do and you both like each other( Men Are Very Confusing),Or if you really want to know just Ask Him! What have you got to lose?He sounds like he likes you.Best Of Luck.. :)
2006-12-04 17:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is good, then why ruin it with labels?
Alot of people that are "branded" with the gf/bf title have just that...a title.
If you've got it going on already, what's in a name?
Will things be different if he asks you to be his gf?
Think about it.
2006-12-04 17:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i probably would ask him what the deal is and if he wants a girlfriend. just so you can get on the same page..and so you dont waste your time. if he doesnt want a girlfriend and you want a boyfriend move on and dont waste your time..
2006-12-04 17:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd date him for 4-5 months (no sex of course) and decide. If we weren't exclusive bf/gf I'd move on
2006-12-04 17:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have u ever asked him whether he likes to be your boyfriend?perheps he is shy or just take u as a sister.
2006-12-04 17:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋