if i stop having ... with my bf do you think that that will make him change and take me serious?

Answer 1

It might work, so go for it.

But keep in mind that his true nature might come out in this. If you quit having sex with your boyfriend and he goes off to feed his lust elsewhere, you were too good for him anyways. Not that he isn't because I don't know your boyfriend. Just a friendly warning woman to woman.

Answer 2

I say don't use sex as a tool or a crutch for your relationship. If you want your bf to take you serious you should talk to him about what ever the issue is. Trying to change him will not work. If there is something you don't like you should discuss it with him and if he wants to change or make an effort to make things better for you then he will. In truth he will probably feel there are some things you should change in order for him to take you serious.
Open and honest communication is always the best way to get to the bottom of an issue...withholding sex is unfair game playing and will cause him to think you are being petty and immature.

Answer 3

Withholding sex usually only works on married men that are faithful to there wives. Not rewarding them with sex when they are bad is the best way to straighten up a man. But a boyfriend i think is more complicated. If you start withholding sex from him he is going to wonder whats up with you and might go astray. Why dont you just communicate with the man and stop playing games.

Answer 4

No

How long has he been your bf? Why isn't he taking u seriously?

I wish I had more info so I could give you a better answer, but there are somethings that u shouldn't start if u don't want to finish them

Answer 5

Forget what you’ve seen on TV. The plots of countless crime shows notwithstanding, Stout says, “even trained psychologists are very bad at discerning the moment when someone is telling a lie.” Rather than studying your date’s face for an unconscious twitch or a furtive sideways glance, “you’re better off trying to figure out this person’s character,” which is revealed more by his conversation than by his body language or facial expressions. Which brings us to…

Ask the right questions. Stout recommends asking (not grilling) your date about his past romantic entanglements, then listening very carefully to what he has to say. “If he attributes everything that went wrong to the other person, then he’s not taking responsibility for his own life, and such people often turn out to be liars.” This doesn’t only apply to past girlfriends: If, for instance, he says he left his last job because his boss was “a jerk,” that’s a red flag, too.

Stand your ground. If you decide to challenge your beau about one of his half-truths (or outright whoppers), be prepared for a barrage of excuses. “Often times, such people will try to appeal to your honesty and empathy,” Stout says. Here are some lines you’re likely to hear: “I was turned on by you so much, I just couldn’t bear to tell you,” “Please don’t be angry, you’re the only one who understands me,” and “I’ll never do it again, can you please forgive me?”

Don’t fall for the “rebel” routine. “A sociopath feels himself to be outside the law, social or actual,” Stout says, “and not only does he like to bend the rules, he also wants you to help him.” So if your date casually says things like, “Let’s have sex in the elevator,” or “Let’s just sneak into the movie, no one will notice,” don’t be surprised if he’s dropped a few lies as well during the course of the evening.

Know when to cut your losses. Surprisingly, Stout takes a more lenient stance than the classic expression, “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” “I have a list of rules for dealing with sociopaths, and one of them is The Rule of 3’s. If this person has misled you once, it could be a mistake or misunderstanding. If he’s done it twice, it can still be a mistake (though that’s less likely). But when it happens three times, that’s when you know you’re with someone who deals in falsehoods.”

Don’t blame yourself. Per the first point on this list, Stout says, many women tend to beat themselves up after becoming involved with a pathological liar, because they cling to the “superstition” that they should have been able to figure things out right away. “Lying is difficult to detect,” she says, “so you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself.” Get away from the liar in question, and get on with your life without berating yourself.

Answer 6

Just tell him straight in the face that of what you exactly want and if he cares he will try to at least change in that direction. If he just brush it off like a bug, then seriously consider your relationship w him

Answer 7

Perhaps you need a new boyfriend. He obviously is in it for the ..... If you deny him that he would leave. However, if you feel that this is true he is not worth having to begin with. Protect yourself and take your power back. Sex is only sweeter when it is done with the one who respects and loves you too.

Answer 8

that may work, or it may make him start cheating on you, depends on how much he loves you. You could try to whip him with your funky stuff so much more till he screems out from cumming so hard, or just stop doing all the other things that you do for him, while telling him how you would want him to treat you, and see if that works.

Answer 9

I don't think so as he's already had you he'll think you don't fancy him anymore and move on to someoe else if sex was all he wanted from you. On the otherhand it could let yu know, if you're willing to take the risk, if he wants to be with you for you and not your body.
Good luck whatever you decide.

Answer 10

plz dont take offense to this but get your head out of the clouds and take responsibility GET MARRIED! talk to your BF about tying the knot if he is uncertain give him at least a day to think BUT BE FIRM and prompt and if he dosnt want to get married then its very obvious that he only like you for >>> so dump his loser butt if he dosnt want to get married k?

P.S PLz take my advice ive seen too much of my own family get torn apart by things like what you are doing GOD LOVES YOU