I told my friend something really personal and she promised not to say anything and then she told but dad but lied about what really happened!! i hate her. should i stop being her friend because she's not trustworthy because that's how i feel now. and she has a history of doing this. should i end our friendship
2006-12-04 17:36:57 · 18 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- It's up to you. If you really consider her as a friend, give her a last chance.
2006-12-08 16:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like much of a friend if she keeps breaking her promises to you and betraying your confidence.
If you really still want her as a friend, go ahead and do remember not to tell her any more of your personal matters.
2006-12-04 17:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by warasouth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a friend is supposed to be a person who you can trust. Thats happened to me a couple times. Ive just learned to be the bigger person. Act like your better than her. Act like you wish you nevermet her. Than shell start feeling bad for what she did, shell learn from it and know not to do it to anyone else.
2006-12-04 17:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Cakes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend lke that.
She cant keep her big mouth shut! But she's still my friend cuz she's always been there for me. I guess I've learned to live with her although I don't tell her any of my really personal secrets anymore. Cuz its lke she jus blurts it out while we r lke speakin to some1 else and lke 2min l8er realises wat shes done.
If she accidently just kinda said the stuff to her dad then i guess you cud forgive her...
but If its lke yur frnd always does it to get back at you or get u into trouble then she really isnt yur frnd.
2006-12-04 18:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lynne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling someone a friend is not to be taken lightly. if she betrayed your trust then she is not your friend. you dont have to stop being her associtate if you dont want but in the future just dont tell her anything else that you dont want anyone else to know. And your relationship with this person will probably never be the same.
2006-12-04 17:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Thumper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that your angry at her for doing this and you dont think you can trust her anymore.
I guess now you will drift apart anyway as a good relationship is based on trust.
I wouldnt want a bestie that blabs everything I tell them.. thats just not on!
2006-12-04 17:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by adnie25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not be her friend anymore because if she lied once about something that was really personal then she will do it again.
2006-12-04 17:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by AvOnDaLeGuRl4LiFe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey!..whats u waiting for that she let your parents to kick you out of your own house...wake up and break this relation u may find some really gud friend..wish u luck
2006-12-04 17:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has a history of it, why did you tell her? It's like the man who picked up the serpent that was freezing because he felt sorry for it. When it thawed, it bit him and as he lay dying, he asked it why. The serpent replied, "You knew I was a serpent when you picked me up."
2006-12-04 17:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anymore secrets... If you like her, be her friend... But be aware that she is not trustworthy
2006-12-04 17:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋