how do i tell him we should be together?

Question

well, hes a marine. ive known him for about 2 yrs. we both like eachother alot, but theres one problem, he has a gf. when we talk on the phone or online, all he talks about is when he can come home for christmas and see me. i think its really sweet, but then again, i feel bad for the girl. one time we were talking about our friendship, and i said we have the relationship that no matter what we wont be together, we will just be friends. his response was, every time i hear that, they always end up being together in the end...
i dont know, should i believe him? or is he just leading me on? what should i do?

Answer 1

I think you should speak from your heart. Tell him how you feel but make sure the time is right. I am not saying that while he have a girl is the right time either because if he cares about her-he will only become confused.You definitely don't want that because then he may wonder if he was wrong and if they could have worked out. You definitely want to make sure it is his decision. Be careful and don't rush.If you been friends this long, wait it out if you have to do so because you don't want to ruin a good thing either. But I would say let him decide considering you don't want to put pressure on it.Wouldn't you feel better knowing he came to you on his own?

Answer 2

Move On,No guy is worth sharing-be free and enjoy yourself Your true love could be around the corner,and you will never know if you are waiting for a two-timing bloke,You Go G/F!

Answer 3

If he has a girlfriend and he is leading you on then it doesn't say much about his character.. sorry to say.
I suggest you back off while he's with the girl. You are only asking for heartache.

Answer 4

He may be lonely and looking for friends while he's away. Just tell him you don't want to share.

Answer 5

What about "he has a gf don't you understand?"

Answer 6

just let him know what you want and you'll find out.