this girl and i just met like 4 days ago i like her, she likes me too we went out and we got a bitt too drunk and i ended up making out with some other girl and finished up in the vip room. and i know it was a big mistake because it was just a big drunken mistake and i know we have alllll been there. so now she is trying to get back at me and purposely (she is not even drunk) talking to all these guys and flirting with them right in front of me and i like her and i told her i did and i didn't want her to do that. why can't she just forget my little drunken party and stop TRYING to make me jelous because i DON'T get jelous.
2006-12-04 16:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really? You don't get jealous?
That seems strange coming from someone that is thinking about it enough to post it here.
Sounds like it WORKS. Maybe thats why we do it.
2006-12-04 16:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that, after your cute little escapade, she thinks you are a jerk & she's flirting with other guys in front of you cuz she doesn't give a d... what you think?
I've been reading the other responses & am amazed at everyone calling her immature without saying much of anything about your behavior which I consider to be far worse.
A drunken mistake and "we've all been there?" I don't think so. Besides breaking your arm by patting yourself on your back because you're just so damned attractive, you're just not a very nice guy. You meet someone. Tell her you like her. Go off with someone else & probably get off. Then what? You go back to her & call her jealous? Jeez. Chivalry is alive & well in America today. No, this did not ever happen to me. Fortunately guys I met at parties had more class.
Ah well. My rant is over. Its probably not your fault your parents raised a thoughtless, egotistical jerk for a son.
2006-12-04 16:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to make you jelous because she wants you to feel exactly how painful it is you made her feel. You know...this is only fair if she did what you did. If you say what you did was a mistake then she can certain use that as an excuse. WHY? cuz anybody who makes a mistake should suffer the consquences. If your thinking "IT'S NOT LIKE I WANT THAT TO HAPPEN" then you should of known better before you did what you did. THINK before you ACT!! you like her then show her that you do not just tell her. Make your words into actions.
2006-12-04 16:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually she'll stop when she's through with her little game. If a woman feels like she's starting to lose a man's interest, she'll try and get another's interest in front of him to try and bring out his true feelings for her. In short she thinks that if you think you're going to lose her, then you'll come running back!
She won't ever forget what you did, women don't do that! As long as you guys are together, that little bit of info will be swimming around in the back of her mind.
2006-12-04 16:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by princessslave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done the first mistake so you have to bear your consequences. It takes time for the other party to accept -- or some may not accept that facts --depending. If you like her deeply, you have to be persistent in your apology -- and to ensure that it will not happen again. But you are just building an excuse for her future revenge upon you =--- too bad.
2006-12-04 16:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let em go be because there's many fish in the sea.
Lots of chicks, especially the nice looking ones dig all of the attention. The result in the end, face lifts and liposuction. Get a good one that treats you right and call it a day.
2006-12-04 16:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by jazzncocktails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a little immature to me. You owe her a big apology, have you done it yet? It might help, but you could have ruined this relationship for good. And I don't feel like being drunk is a good excuse. Most people (male or female) do and say things when their drunk that they don't have the guts to do when their sober.
2006-12-04 16:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You & her need to talk it out. I have too much of experience with girls trying to make me jealous after I did something wrong.. the only way to solve the problem is to talk to her & apologise.
2006-12-04 16:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not even worth it if she's trying to make you jealous when you didn't even mean to make out with that other girl in the 1st place! I'm serious....she's not worth it. I don't even know you and I already know that you can do better than her! Ditch the bi-tch!
2006-12-04 16:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by LiNdSaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wanna see if your a jelous rager or if you care at all
but sounds like shes just being vindictive
2006-12-04 16:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋