Heres the story(5weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me.
2006-12-04 16:08:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Couple of details id like to mention, the girl use to take me to lunch before the breakup, not the other way around, and she'd want me to go do things with her...ie after work have a coffee or something... After the breakup, she wanted me to be the one to confort her, which i done of course, and we started going out even more doing lunches, movies, etc.....even introduced me to a couple of her friends.....i dont know what to do now???.....Recently she got really mad at me, and told me to F#ck off, i havent talked to her since, she seems to be frustrated at me only....shes slowly starting to talk again, but i ignore her like nothing else....shes really got me mad this time, i dont know why shes taking it out on me, but i havent talked to her properly since...she asks me if im ok, and if everythings fine...im really serious toned to her now, and havent txtd again, or tried acknowledging her for awhile now...why has things got to this stage anyhow?....
2006-12-04 16:09:13 · update #1
What should i do people?......that F&ck Off remark really hurt me....and i dont know if she knows it or not, as that same day, she started to want to talk normally to me again, and i didnt budge, i just kept convo serious, and have been doing so since (been about 6days now....usually we're always laughing to each other...which isnt happening on my end now...she does try to cheer me up though, which isnt working for me!). Shes pretty much the same as me though, we both talk and laugh normally to others around us, being it girl or boy, but when talking to each other, it becomes really awkward (and i just get my job done so keep convo short and to the point)....and ive noticed this for awhile now. Have i ignored her enough now?should i start speaking to her again normally......i need her to know that i was annoyed with her though, how can i do this in a subtle manner....im really thinking of giving up now!please help
2006-12-04 16:09:30 · update #2
shes been away for the past few days, and is back at work in 2 days/.....i havent txt her for a week now,...should i stop ignoring her now?
2006-12-04 16:10:29 · update #3
I would just move on...
2006-12-04 16:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess the question is "Did you do anything wrong?" What ever it is girls like to pick out the insignificant little things about men just to piss them off and to get mad at.
I was with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years and was there for her and her son every step of the way. I went way beyond the 110% to make them both happy. She broke up with me a year ago claiming that I did this, that and the other thing just to get out. Yes, she made up lies and accusations just to get out and not only that her best friend told her to break up with me which was not right. It was not her decision, it was her friends. Which is a proven fact.
Anyway the point is that women like to nit pick on the little things and not look at the big picture for what the sweethearts do for them. Anything just to be mad at you.
So you probably didn't do anything wrong but she found excuses just to make you look bad which is not fair.
My advice to you is I would just keep it kosher between you two and let her make the moves and see what happens. Don't stay mad at her then you will lose her for good. Just be your self and be cool about everything and see what she does?
Good Luck!
2006-12-05 00:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u blind that girl wants u to F U C K her
u should have done that a long time ago
its a bit late now but u can still do it
star talking to her let her star touching u again then do the same but be polite dont go to the extream yet wait for the right time
one rule for u to remember
a girl does not belong to anyone until she is married
those kind of girl just wants fun GIVE HER FUN
2006-12-05 00:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by charles l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but you are being a little too attached to her. And i have done this to a guy before, and it is because i was just not into him anymore. i noe it might sound shallow but you cannot help the way you feel. So just let her be and maybe she needs her space. Because the more you txt her the more she will get annoyed with you. Let her come after you, and don't make up excuses to yourself because it will just confuse you.
2006-12-05 00:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by sCaTie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance until she asks you what's wrong. Then you can tell her how her remarks hurt you. If she doesn't ask, she not interested in getting together with you. Right now she on the rebound and if you go out with her too soon, she could end up dropping you too.
2006-12-05 00:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad I'm grown up. Was I that ridiculous when I was a kid?
You're both just playing games. Next girl you like, try playing it from your heart rather than imagining you're living in a tv show.
2006-12-05 00:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Fitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's mad cuz of her breakup, nothing to do with you. its a hard time for her, even worse if she got dumped. i'd say be cool with her like u used to. she'll be back to normal in time.
2006-12-05 00:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by King Kong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok two choices leave it alone , and move on and see what happens just go on with your life , or maybe send her some flowers and on the card spill your guts and heart , that way she will at least know how you feel and you will feel better letting her know ........
2006-12-05 00:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is absolutely confussed,Things take time,just keep living and enjoying to do what you want to do-Don't Stress,if thing's happen they happen and if they don't move on,good-luck!
2006-12-05 00:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes ya, it's that simple. focus on the fact that she broke up w/ her bf recently, she's just feeling guilty about her feelings towards you. give it time, and hit that hit that hit that
2006-12-05 00:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
state the facts.admit you were hurt.stop with the games.or get the hell out of dodge
2006-12-05 00:15:11 · answer #11 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋