I just returned from 4 wonderful days with my online boyfriend of 6 months and on day 2 I was "informed" that he was taking me to meet his mother. Keep in mind that in the whole time we have conversed on the phone and online neither one of us mentioned meeting family members. We also wen to his company Christmas party and Church on Sunday. I think this is serious but I don't want to jump to conclusions just yet so...fellas tell me what are your intentions when you take a lady home to meet momma??? Ladies feel free to help me out on this one too.
2006-12-04 15:58:08 · 25 answers · asked by Fabulous Divaness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he really likes you...
You are not jumping to conclusions. Guys dont introduce you to his work colleagues, fellow church goers AND his parents if he isnt serious about your future.
2006-12-04 16:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, it is serious when a guy brings a girl home. The guy I'm with now (living with) told me he doesn't bring the hoes home. lol I'm the first girlfriend his dad has even met (since high school). Anyhoot, I dated this guy a few years back (different guy), the whole internet thing.... like you, and he had me meet his parents the 3rd day we were together. He ended up moving to Oklahoma from New York for me... that relationship didn't work out, but I'd say this guy is serious about you!!!
2006-12-04 16:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man meeting mom is a big deal. Guys dont want there mom to meet just anyone. They want there mom to meet a potental "the one" They're not like us girls who just have to have mom meet them to get an opinion. Men take women to meet their mothers when they've already formed an opinion, and it must be good cause your meeting mom!
2006-12-04 16:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must really like u and want his parents to like u too. Most guys don't take u home to meet the folks unless they're really serious about you.
2006-12-04 16:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Shelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really seems like this guy is pretty serious about you if he's taking you to all these events... but since you two have mostly dated online, be cautious for a little bit longer. good luck girl and i wish you the best of happiness :)
2006-12-04 16:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is definantly getting serious. no man would take a woman home to their mother if they thought they would break up shortly. it is embarasing when everyone in your family knows that you broke up with somone. and likeing somone enough to take them home to your mom is kinda like showin you off. its not a bad kind of showin you off. its like you should feel good that he thinks so highly of you. he really likes you and wants to get serious. no doubt 100 % sure of it,
2006-12-04 16:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must think a lot of you. Congrats! I met my husbands family after only dating for six months...he invited me to christmas?!!! Yeah, I thought it was wierd but later sweet. Needless to say, three years later we got married...been married for five years. Good luck!
2006-12-04 16:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Honeypai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is proud of you and he wants you to get acquainted with his family. You are right, don't jump into conclusion. If you are a Filipino, it means that he is ready to have a family with you.
2006-12-04 16:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by athena353 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Fred Flintstone will say ' You're better than the average bear'
Brush up on your charm, you're going into the examining room.
2006-12-04 16:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats cool that he respects you enough to take you to his moms house and to church. He's a really good guy thats diggin you, just make sure you take it slow and let it be natural.
2006-12-04 16:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by o'juiccy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋