Not too long ago me and my lovely gf, broke up because she said that she was "drawn" to someone else but apperently that was sarcastic. I heard from her friend that the reason behind it was that I was mean to her (because I was head over heels with her). Now shes saying that its just a break. Im not 100% sure if she wants to get back together but Im confuzzled if I should get back together with her or not, thats if thats what she wants. Soo...Give me advice on what I should do or what u think I should do.
thanks
2006-12-04 15:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confuzzeled means confussed. I just cant spell confussed unless the spelling I spelt was right just now...
2006-12-04 16:01:45 · update #1
She emailed me and said she wants to get back together. She said she's missed me. You know what though. I do like her still, but Im gonna let it sit for now. See if she really wants this. I'll test her maybe...any ideas on that?
2006-12-04 16:25:22 · update #2
face it! she is planing to hang out with other guys more before she gets with you!
she needs a brake from what? you? that means she doesn't like you, she is using you! find someone that does want to share time with you and that doesn't want space but only you!
someone that has all the time for you and everything that's inportant to you!
and if her friend had to tell you the real story then your girl is not worth it!
she should tell you everything and the treuth
i hope you find someone that has time for you and loves to be in your space
2006-12-04 16:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by denise_evert17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off: i love the word "confuzzling" so brownie points for you, for using that word.
anyway, you really need to talk to her and ask her some questions such as:
are we brocken up?
are we on a break?
when did we decide this?
those kinds of things i think will work. i dont see why she rboke up with you in the first place, but that might be cool to throw in that list of questions.
also, consider asking her friend about this. that may help.
have fun and good luck.
2006-12-05 00:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to PLAINLY tell you why you guys broke up...
' I dont get it, I love you like crazy and you say I'm drawn to someone else? What did I do? Tell me, please, what was my mistake?'
Tell her also to stop her sarcasm (if she continues).
If you think you understand what she said (no longer confused). Then you give your explanation (about how you feel when she said that)
' I was totally confused.'
Then its up to you if you want to get back with her or not. If she shows no signs of interest...DROP IT She's making excuses to dump you, get the hint...
2006-12-05 00:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women will confuse you your whole life get used to it
if you backofff she may relax a little she just feels crowded by you and needs to see you for you a individual not as part of "us" not dependent on her and have the strength to be a man emotionally strong w/ or w/o her
if you love something let it go ..... as the saying goes
2006-12-04 23:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her friend more questions about what she meant and how she currently feels about you.
Take her friend out to lunch or dinner and pepper her with questions.
That's what I would do if I really loved someone and wanted them back.
2006-12-05 00:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it.
She is a messing with your mind man.
Let her get "drawn" all she wants.
And you keep on being the mean ol' bastard you are, someone will love ya for it, but probably not her ;-P
2006-12-04 23:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Drag0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. It is definitely not worth it! You deserve someone who is going to want you as much as you want them. There are tons of fish in the sea! :)
2006-12-04 23:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rainey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out again. mayb u should treat her better and then something beautfiul can develop between u. n besides if u really liked her u wouldn't have been mean to her/
2006-12-04 23:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about. if she really is "drawn" to someone else, dont stop her. but if she isn't, then maybe a little space wouldn't hurt.
2006-12-04 23:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Starburst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. as i would say to a little kid, EF THAT S#!T. girls like that are a waste of time. it might not seem like it to you right now, but seriously. girls are crazy, fragile, fickle creatures that arent to be bargained with until they are women. even then, be wary.
2006-12-04 23:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by someguyacrosstown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋