i hav met a grl that i like. she always waits for me after class and always wants a hug, but i play hard to get and say no. she always wants to lay on me like i'm a sofa. when we talk on the phone, we talk for eva. she makes me say thatt i luv her and i do but sometimes when she saids it,it doesn't sound like she means it. i really like her but i have tried everything that i possibly can. help me get a hold of her. i don't want to lose her. can you give advice please.
2006-12-04 15:51:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you playing hard to get? That is for when your not sure of the other persons feelings. It's holding back to get them to say something. If you don't like her laying on you, tell her she's in your personal space. If she's trying to force or trick a confession of love from you, tell her you don't know her well enough to say, but you'd like to get to know her better. If you let her use you in order to keep her, she'll just move on later when she gets bored. Keep some respect for yourself so you have something to share with her.
2006-12-04 15:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be the dumbest guy on the planet.
To me, this girl sounds like the hit it and quit it kind..... You obviously dont think she loves you....... so dont even go down that path.
But if you are insistent on learning the hard way.......
It sounds like she ALREADY got you. So take it to the next level, someplace nice to eat, then the back of your car ;-:P Or however whatever the next level is where you are.
2006-12-04 23:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Drag0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first ? is are you even going out? My 2nd ? is how old are both of you, and, even though I know you can't answer me, WTF is wrong with you??? If she is trying to lay on you, I would definately say it is time to give in and try to take it a little further. Think about it. You can do more than a sofa ever can for her. Am I right? Ofcourse I am.
2006-12-05 00:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop playing hard to get! if it soumds like she doesn't mean it when she says she loves you maybe it's because she is not sure of your feelings. tell her how you feel, who knows, it might be weight off of her shoulders for her to find out that you feel the same way she does. hope it works out!
2006-12-05 00:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by menolikey811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are definite signs that she likes you. Just tell her that you like her and want to take her out on a date and she what she says! Honesty is the best policy! :)
2006-12-04 23:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rainey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just have a friend ask her if she has a thing for u. if she does then she'll come clean, but if she doesn't then huney, move on. There r better gurls out there who don't treat u like their property
2006-12-04 23:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..stop playing hard to get when she wants a hug. invite her out to eat somewhere.
2006-12-04 23:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by sugarpie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop playing hard to get and ask her out. then your love can really develop.
2006-12-04 23:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out stop playing mind games
2006-12-05 00:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea dude give her a dozen roses and youll have her back, no girl can resist roses unless there he/shes
2006-12-04 23:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by CHICHO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋