My girlfriend and I go to schools about an hour apart, and alot of her friends go to my university. The other day one of her friends at my school heard from another girl that I had sex with some random girl one night. I've questioned everyone and tried to get to the bottom of this; even the girl that has been accused of having sex with me has talked to my girlfriend and told her nothing has ever happened (which is the truth). The more people I question, the more I begin to see that someone is lying, which is making this all worse that it has to be. I haven't, and would never, cheat on my girlfriend. The more people I talk to, the more difficult it is to piece a story together as to how this damn thing started in the first place. My question is...how do I prove to my girlfriend that I haven't cheated on her?
2006-12-04 15:47:37 · 9 answers · asked by Matt N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't prove to her that you haven't cheated, it's a matter of trust on her part. Stop spending your energy trying to figure out how the rumour started and just focus on your girl. Tell her how much you love her, tell her why you don't need to and would never cheat on her. Send her messages reminding her of how much you love her. Remember when you just met this girl, what did you do to get her? Revisit your wooing tactics. Best wishes!
2006-12-04 15:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Godblessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, when I was younger I liked this guy, but he had a girlfriend who went to college in florida. I thought they were broken up and I started to fool around with him. I cheated on every guy I had dated (except my husband) with him. I will always convince myself that my husband is cheating, but I know the facts that he is not. I just don't want to get hurt. You tell her that you have been honest, and people are telling you this because there is a saying that keep your friends close and your enemies closer, they are trying to break you up. Tell her that you wouldn't damage the relationship with her by having a fling, you wouldn't go through so much to have a long distance relationship and cheat on her, what would be the point. Do things to make her feel special. She surely needs it.
2006-12-04 15:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, are you really telling her the truth. if she doesn't believe you, then maybe she is cheating on you. at any rate, explain to her what happened and don't sweat the small sh.. if you have done no wrong, then you do not need to prove anything else to her, your girlfriend, and if this does not satisfy her question, then maybe it is time to move on
2006-12-04 15:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by jh452004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to prove that you didn't do something. It's much easier to prove something that you did do. Your girlfriend should trust you.
If she doesn't, go ahead and sleep with someone else since you're already being blamed for it ;-).
2006-12-04 15:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be cynical, man, but if you're telling it straight you've done enough and it's time to stop defending yourself. If your girl's not trusting you, there's a bigger problem. Maybe she has a guilty conscience and is letting you bear the weight.
2006-12-04 15:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Fitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to 'confince' her that you didnt cheat it means she doesnt trust you....and as far as I am concerned a relationship without trust can never last....
2006-12-04 15:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your girl friend says you need to prove it...then maybe it is not worth having this girlfriend at all.. think abt it.
2006-12-04 15:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change school and be closer to her, and if that can't happen call her everyday, or whatever........let her know how much you love her, and when you're with her... show her how much you love her... no guarantees, but it might work.... good luck
2006-12-04 15:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋