So i'm goin out with this really hot guy whose a junior in HS while I'm a freshmen there, and everytime I either talk to or hug my guy friends he gets mad and walks off. Then yesterday, I gave my best guy a hug cuz it's his b-day and me and my man got into a hge fight and i haven't talked to him since. I don't want my relationship to be over but if he's gonna argue with me every time i talk to or hug my guy friends than i do not think it's gonna work out. Should I break up with him or what? SHould we talk it out? GRRR, I'm so confused. Please help me. I need all the advice I can get.......
2006-12-04 15:44:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This shows he cares and not wanting his girl to mess around with other guys. He also want you to be secured and safe from other guys that all. This proof that he care and love you. Good luck.
2006-12-04 18:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is insecure about where he stands with you (yea, even though it should be plain and clear as far as you're concerned) and also doesn't trust you enough to rely on your good judgment not to hurt his feelings. First, if you really want to keep that boyfriend, sit down with him somewhere where you won't be interrupted or disturbed by other folks (but not so secluded where you can't get to others if you need to) and have a talk with him, point out that you love him and would never cheat on him or go behind his back (but mean it and make sure you never will), that if you ever decide you need to be free you will talk to him first so no one else will know before he does out of your respect for him. Let him know that you cannot live in a vacuum, that other people that include other guys are friends and that you are the type that likes to demonstrate your affection for your friends (and that affection is probably one of the things your boyfriend likes about you) and that it's not more serious then hugging your brother or sister. If, after explaining this to him, he still cannot trust you to do the right thing, if he still gets raving jealous for no good reason, maybe you have to learn to let him go because your only other choice is to give up all your friends (and eventually, he'll ask that you not talk to your family because he needs to know you are his and his alone).
2006-12-04 15:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sandy
what i now of jalousies we all get in that situation no matter what
some people now how to control it and others don't they even make a big o Sean to it but that also means that he really loves you and all depends how you act when you talk to other guys is it in a nice way or a flirty way? but be careful because when its to much drama over nothing he could be sickness over jealous that's dangerous he can end up doing stupid thing? sorry for my languish.
2006-12-04 15:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just trying to be a flirt, if you want to hug other guys, become single, because obviously you have a problem. You truly want to make him jealous so he will get that way and it makes you feel good that he cares enough to get that upset. Stop playing with the boy, he just wants to be there with you. How would you feel it, if you were married and you husband was going around the reception giving really hot women hugs and his chest pressed against hers? that would make you upset. Women have boobs, he doesn't want anyone touching them, he knows how guys are. The boys who want hugs from you if so they can feel your boobs against their chest.
2006-12-04 15:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hugging up on guys in front of him is disrespectful, but picking the fight with your friend was overreacting. He's a guy, so he knows how other guys think, and he just doesn't want any other guys touching you.
2006-12-04 15:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by мooи sнiиe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a friend just like that he wants to be my boyfriend and if I talk to another guy or even look at one he gets mad so you've most likly got the same problem as me the guy likes you but hes afraid to ask you out or something like that. :)
2006-12-04 15:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my man!
my bf didn't want me talking to any other guys so i st oped talking to them when he was around and with time i lost all my guy friends..
if you really like him think if you would be OK with just talking to your bf or is it really worth it and if not tell him your not into the jealous types.
tell him you like him and the other guys are just friends and he has to understand that.
2006-12-04 15:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate it if my gf hugged another man freely like that in front of me. You just need to be more prudent that's all
2006-12-04 15:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by ranchan_black17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is the same way... u just need too reasure him that he is the only one... yes talk about it i did with my bf and he is getting better at it but he wus just afraid of losing me.. guys do get jealous easier and its ok when they hug other girls... if he is the one talking will work it out..
2006-12-04 15:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by taytay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase guys know that all guys do when they talk and hang out with girls is they are trying to get inot your pants, believe it or not its true, unless your butt ugly, then the guy might just settle for a nice B.J.
2006-12-04 15:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋