My ex bf is getting married. I'm only 16 and he's 19. He was the first guy I ever kissed. He's invited me to his wedding. If you were in this situation would you go?
2006-12-04 15:43:51 · 18 answers · asked by depplover8990 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I have no interest in him anymore. I've move far from that, being that it was two years ago. We still talk every once in awhile, but not very often.
2006-12-04 15:51:47 · update #1
no, i wouldnt , i might send him a nice card, think about when you get married, to you want your husbands ex girlfriends there??
2006-12-04 15:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on yourself? will seeing him getting married affects you? Like will you see urself getting really upset after attending his wedding?
If the answer is yes or maybe, I advice you not to attend, just send him a gift and ur well wisehes.
However, if you are total over him and this doesnt affect you at all, go. I am sure u are happy that he is happy and well?
Having said all these, I feel that you are obviously still affected by him nad your past relationship, otherwise, you would ave made up ur mind long time ago, and not here asking us this question!
2006-12-04 23:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by crow_nanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope wouldn't put myself in that situation get over it already he's marrying someone else get on with your life there's alot of fish in the sea ya know.Good Luck
2006-12-04 23:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weddings are events for friends and family. Not to say you hate him but really you two are not friends, so I say don't go. You can however send a card.
2006-12-08 09:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsexylocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Unless your not over him, you could wish him well. You dont have to hate all exes for the rest of your life. Some things just arent meant to be.
2006-12-04 23:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go. We have known him our entire lives, don't let that one thing stop you from going to an old friends wedding.
2006-12-06 20:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by nekomaddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how you feel about him now. Are you friends? Why do you think he invited you? I would send him and his wife best wishes but don't feel obligated to go.
2006-12-04 23:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have a reason to hate him. if u do then dont but if u and him are still on good terms then go ahead. it sounds like to me that u still like him and u stuill have feelings fro him. if u do and u honestly cant put them aside and be happy for him then dont go. u would only be touturing urself.
2006-12-04 23:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by blueygirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should not go to this wedding. He is too young to be getting married and you shouldn't be exposed to his lunacy.
2006-12-05 01:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go unless he has invited several mutual friends and then you could all go together.
2006-12-05 06:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋