ok, im a asian guy and high school senior. my physical features r like average asian, but im very americanized so i dont act like asian nerds, hehe
there is this latino girl in my school, shes a junior. shes pretty cute, and nice i guess
she's in some of my classes and seats very close to me.
we kept made eye contacts many times and she tried to talk to me even tho her english skill was kinda poor. but i knew she was a cool girl so i talked to her from time to time. and i also knew tat she might have a crush on me
and she asked me out last wednesday, like face to face. well, i rejected, not cuz im a racist, but i didnt feel like havin a gf. and she didnt come to school on thursday, friday, and today!
now i feel VERY VERY sorry for her. we couldve at least stay cool as a friend, but i dont think she's even gonna talk to me now
she didnt respond me wen i called her. but i know some of her friends, should i ask em to help me out?
i really wanna stay as a nice friend w/ her
2006-12-04 15:03:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
asa female..we get over the rejection..its good you were honest,,continue to do so there arent many honest people in the world..dont be rude to her and dont lead her on..
2006-12-04 15:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously very upset. If you knew she had a crush on you, it would have been kinder to discuss it with her earlier instead of leading her on. But done is done.
Now, you need to leave her alone to heal. The "I just wanna be friends" line is not what she wants to hear. You might send her a letter and tell her you did not mean to hurt her and if/when she would like to be friends, you will be there for her. It's good that you do care about her feelings. It says something nice about you.
God Bless,
Sue
2006-12-04 23:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to her the deal. Let her know that you are not looking for a girlfriend. But also let her know that you have plenty of room for friends. Once she understands what you are looking for, then she won't be offended. It would be wise to ask her friends for help. Maybe they could explain this to her. Then when she comes back, tell her how much you just want to be her friend and tell her that she is a nice person.
2006-12-04 23:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by 09 _ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch that's tough! Well, you could talk to her friends, but I think if you get the chance, you should talk to her and tell her that you want to be cool friends, and that you like her as a person and want to get to know her, ect. Also explain to her why you rejected her so she doesn't think it is all because of her.
Hope I helped and Good Luck.
2006-12-04 23:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by I live to eat chocolate! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go w/ the flow and relax shell be back at school eventually you could try talking to her friends but talk to i right ones and don't dig yourself a hole. when she comes back discetely apologize in private and tell her you like her and want to spend time w/ her but aren't sure your ready 4 a serious relationship right now
2006-12-04 23:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that you are young. my best advice is to be patient. just give her time to think things better. don´t start a relationship just to not hurt anyone. everybody seeks their own best and that is not wrong. she is responsible for what she is doing.
2006-12-04 23:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by taiwanes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all she wants is to do it...so jus do her and leave her....one time hitter...thanks for the 2 pts.
2006-12-04 23:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
meany!!!!!!!! jk jk
get on wit her life
its her problem not urs not matter how mean you are
2006-12-04 23:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋