Our main concern is are we able to have children as a result of these abortion?
2006-12-04 14:38:01 · 18 answers · asked by andrea s 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It is a well documented fact that full term pregnancy is at least 10 times more likely to cause damage to your reproductive organs or kill you than abortion. How many women do you know or know of that have sucessfully had multiple children? This should help answer your question.
If you had your abortions done in a proper medical clinic/hospital and they were preformed by a real medical doctor like an OBGYN, took your antibiotics and went to your post abortion check up, then it's highly unlikely that your previous abortions are going to cause you any problems with your ability to become pregnant again.
People just use the extremely rare instances and lies to scare women away from making the right choices for themselves. Sometimes it's out of jealousy (women who can't reproduce are often bitter with women who chose not to reproduce), sometimes it's out of hatred or ignorance, the reason doesn't matter. Really though, because full term pregnancy and labour is so much more dangerous than abortion, shouldn't we be arguing against breeding? Especially since a baby has the potential to grow up to be anything including a serial killer or the next Adolf Hilter!
Don't worry. Don't listen to the crap about 'killing your baby' and not deserving another. You haven't had any babies! Lots of women have healthy pregnancies and babies after having abortions even multiple abortions. Good luck!
2006-12-04 23:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 21:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to refrain from preaching at you from my soapbox because a few other people already have, but I do know that multiple abortions can sometimes seriously affect your fertility later on even if there weren't any complications. If it doesn't work for you in 12 months, go see a specialist. If you just can't wait that long, see your doctor now and discuss your concerns.
I hope that you are justified in your reasons for abortion, and if you cannot get pregnant because of it (or for any other reason), there is alway adoption.
2006-12-04 16:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Never mind...whatevr might hav happened is happened..just leave the past..happy tht atleast now u feel lik having kids...
sometimes,the fallopian tubes get closed during some abortions..however u ll have ur periods...if the tubes get closed,then it would become difficult for the ovum to get fertilised.in some acute cases,there wont be availability of the ovum too.. and as a result u cant concieve.not only this,but u may have many reasons..
firstly,try again...if u dont get pregnant,then consult a doctor..
u can have babies even if ur system isnt right! u can go for IVF(Invetro fertilisation) etc...methods..
consult your nearest doctor...
All the best..
2006-12-04 18:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by For peace 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I read your question about 20 minutes ago and just shook my head in sheer and utter disbelief. I wasn't going to answer but I find that I am still shaking my head. How fortunate for these possible future unborn children that you are finally at a convenient time in your life. There is a risk that you may not be able to conceive again just as you are now at higher risks for certain cancers because of your choice. Remember though, whatever predicament you find yourself in with your future fertility, it was your choice.
2006-12-04 15:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by wyllow 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
it all depends, sometimes abortions cause certain complications, it is definitely possible for you to still have a kid perfectly fine, just know that there are possibilities of complications, though abortions are very clean and hardly ever cause any problems nowadays, I'm sure you are perfectly fine to start a family, I've known a few people that had a couple of abortions and now they have a couple of kids, well one has 3, but they didn't have any problems at all,
good luck and take care and ignore the stupid people, no one has any right to judge you, they are self minded, unintelligent people who can't live their own lives and always believe they are right, when they are nothing but annoying!!
IT'S ONLY OBVIOUS ALSO THAT THE PRO-LIFERS HAVE NO LIFE BUT TO GO UP AND DOWN THESE ANSWERS PUTTING THUMBS DOWN ON ALL THE PEOPLE HELPING YOU, THEY ARE THE PEOPLE THEIR PARENTS SHOULD HAVE ABORTED!! THEN THE WORLD WOULD HAVE LESS SELF JUDGING PIECES OF CRAP WALKING AROUND!
2006-12-04 15:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lo 4 · 4⤊ 6⤋
The only real thing you can do is try. Talk to your doctor he might be able to help. I think that it also depends on the person, my friend has had several abortions and she has two children now.
2006-12-04 14:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Me, again 6 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Well, we all make bad judgements, at least that was the impression I had. If the two of you are truley ready for a child, talk to your dr. just to be sure. Maybe there is something you need to do first. If you can't get pregnant, there are always kids needing to be adopted.
2006-12-04 15:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa R 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would say try it the old fashion way first. If things don't work, look into it further. Sometimes these things don't actually get founf out until you try, and why waste time and money on a doctor if you don't need to?
2006-12-04 14:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by shininginshadows 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If nothing went wrong with the abortion then you should be fine.
You should see a doctor first.
If it doesn't work out there is always adoption.
2006-12-04 14:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by PMCQ 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋