im so ugly...i dont care if this is a stupid question...my feelings are hurt by rude people but my dad keeps telling me im beautiful...
i dont get it...i used to be okay...now i have acne,glasses and beacuse of stressed i gained tons of weight.
my hair wont listen to me and snice my dad is single father and is poor i cant buy and products to help me to be prettier.i hate it when people staire at me and say stuff and laugh i cry every night and im sick of telling myself"why cant you be pretty?"
alot of people say appearence dont matter but it does i hate miooros and im sick of looking at myself at the mirror and im not going to do any more.I dont want to pitty myself but no one listens to me and i hate it when people make fun of me and i have nothing to say back this sucks and i really hate it i DO think im ugly and i
cant help it somtimes i wish i got a knife and killed myself no one listens to me beacuse they think im boring cuz the way i look
i want to quit everything...and die
2006-12-04 14:29:08 · 12 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You sound like you're suffering from depression.....and you need some help.
Call you local Crisis Center and talk to someone....you don't have to live like this.
2006-12-04 14:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 17⤊ 4⤋
Well, I have a few zits right now (pms breakout), I wear glasses, and I gained weight, but that doesn't make me ugly. You sound depressed. You need to talk to your dad and see about a state program for you (since I'm assuming he can't afford the medical care... unless he has health insurance at work that you're on). Most states have a program for people under 18. I was on it from ages 16-19 for depression as well. If you want, just send me a message and the state you live in and I'll look it up for you and then you and your dad can go and apply for it. That way, you can get medication and counceling for free.
2006-12-04 15:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ugly. If only appearence mattered I would date you. Don't feel bad from billion men at least someone is made for you (or even 10 million men are made for you)
2014-11-14 03:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom used to say to me that you could only be poor if you never helped anyone, cause that made you poor in character! I know it is hard in today's world of "beauty", but maybe your world has become too "me" centered! Could you try for a short time to forget about your looks and think of someone who has less than you that you could somehow help? Maybe you could read to a child, or listen to them read their homework (little child)! In that way you will be beautifying the inside, and soon you will see that it will destress you, and begin to show more on the outside what a beauty you really are!!!It feels good to give what we have to others! And maybe someone will give something to you to help you feel better about yourself too! Life has a funny way of doing that !!!!
2006-12-04 14:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
lets deal with one prob at a time. abt the acne, well since u said u cant afford to buy beauty products, lets try figuring something out that's natural. well try this apply yogurt with lime and honey everyday on ur face and leave it on for about 30-45mins and then wash it off. be sure to cleanse ur face by simply washing it before u apply the yogurt etc. do not apply anything on ur face after u wash off the pack. everymorning after ur face is cleansed and fresh, rub a piece of papaya on ur face and wash it off after 30mins. make sure u follow both the treatments daily without fail...coz it will take u months to show improvements in ur skin coz remember these are natural. abt ur glasses...why dont u try switching to contact lenses??? and abt ur gaining weight...do a lot of breathing exercises early every morning and be sure to jog for an hour evry morning.
all of this will take abt 6-10months to show improvement so plz follow it regularly without fail.
i hope this will help u, good luck!
2006-12-04 20:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by moi 1 · 13⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be tough especially since the things people say now a days is SO harsh. You just got to keep your head up. And always remember you are beautiful. And when your thinking about killing yourself just remember your all your dad has!
2006-12-04 14:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 17⤊ 0⤋
No you are not ugly! i know your fed up minding that your not ugly but your actually not ugly people just say that becoz maybe you have a Ability that you just didn't know your pretty believe on yourself look at the inside of your heart and you will know how beautiful you are it's not on The outside it's in the inside how kind you are how self minding you are how pretty you really are.
THANKS FOR THE ANSWER!
CHEER UP! SMILES!
2006-12-08 11:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
i would advise you to talk to an older woman that you look up to and think is pretty, mayy at your church or school or something, if you dont think it is working there are places you can call that will help you ask the person that you look up to if she can help u and try to help you loose wieght if its that bad.
2006-12-04 14:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany B 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what you say about your self will be what is to you for ever.
stop and look at all the good you have and have done.
2006-12-05 03:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by DENISE 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What seems so big today....will be so little tomorrow.
Believe in yourself......Talk to your father and tell him how you feel.
Be honest......
If people don't like you for you are...they're not worth it.
Beauty is so much more than what is on the outside.
I know...you want to hear something else...
However its true...Trust & blieve in yourself...then worry about the rest of it.
best wishes
2006-12-04 15:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 36⤊ 0⤋