okay my cousin son 2nd b-day is this sat the 9th should i go iam the god mother but there still is tension with us and i dont care for that family iam a stronger person towards them there trouble and i need to stay away or i get caught up in there drama its serious stuff they do and they can care less on my feelings on the things they do since i help them alot dispite there crap iam done and iam numb to anything they do so help i cant do it nomore like puting up with there mess i dont hate them i just need to stay away so should i go or shouldnt i go
2006-12-04 14:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Protect yourself. You are not obligated to go. Maybe send a gift and state that you had other plans. Even if your plans are to stay home. Do what you need to do for you.
2006-12-04 14:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't go. it sounds like they're trouble, and you'd be better off not going around them. I know you probably want to see the baby, but it just doesn't sound like a safe bunch to be around. and you certainly don't want to be in the big middle of a mess if one breaks out while you were there. I support your decision not to go. I'm sure there are lots of others who do also.
2006-12-04 14:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for your mental health. But, do send the child something, something he can use that they may not take back and return the item .. where they have to use it ... like a gift certificate to a playground activity place. .. it could say non- refundable.
2006-12-04 14:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by ahh4theday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋