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Hey girls what do you honestly look for in a man? I've been having a hard time the last couple of months attracting a nice girl. Overall im not an ugly guy, blond hair blue eyes 155ilbs 5"10, athletic in good shape. Currently a combat medic and college student. Im a real laid back type of person, maybe it seems im not passionate or don't have an opinoin, b/c i don't argue too much, i kinda let things slide. Unless you really hit something i care about, then ill argue it. Well anyways what am i missing, i only seem to attract the crazy girls, not looking for them anymore.

2006-12-04 14:21:59 · 31 answers · asked by ken 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

Don't try to change! Be yourself. Honestly you sound pretty damn good! Some girls aren't worth it. Don't try too hard either, try to let it happen. When you meet someone then the time is right and it will be for the real you. Maybe focus on something else in your life for now, I'm sure a really nice girl would be glad to have you.

But when I'm interesed in a man, he has to be into me. He has got to show me that he is interested. Thats the most part for me. I have to be able to trust him too. Good luck!

2006-12-04 14:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 4 0

You're 15, so that you would get taller, but when each person to your household is brief (shall we embrace underneath five'two"), adding your cousins, then that would now not occur. If you keep quick, you most likely must be extra outgoing! I can not say this sufficient. Most women desire a taller man, however you probably have a pleasant character (being extra extroverted fairly is helping on this case) or if you are lovable/scorching, they'll make an exception. Girls customarily select that the men make the primary transfer. Girls will more often than not like shy men in the event that they appear lovable/scorching. Being ripped and gambling the guitar are pleasant matters to have! The poetry side can also be well, nevertheless it is determined by the way you play it.

2016-09-03 12:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're boring. I have the same problem.

It's like I've been saying all along. Guys and girls are both superficial. Guys want a hot girl. Girls want a fun guy. Both characteristics are superficial. Only difference is that physical attraction is good for the gene pool. Fun breeds more fun people, which doesn't necessarily improve the gene pool. A drunk is likely to be as much fun as a successful comic genius.


I think the most popular answer I can give would be Women want a man who ABSOLUTELY CONTROLS that little slice of life that he owns. It doesn't matter how big that slice is. It matters how much control he has of that slice. A woman would much rather be with the happiest man who sings opera badly on the back of a garbage truck than with a lawyer/doctor who hates his job or just tries to get by with life. You sound on the surface like you have potential. Combat medic? That's not bad. But college student? You didn't even tell us what you are studying, which says to me that you aren't excited about your education. How excited about life are you? You need to take ownership of your life and get excited about it. Girls like to be a part of big things. They want to be feel like they are a part of something big. If you are excited about your life, she will be excited about you. Romance the girls. Make them feel loved and cherished. Also challenge them. Don't make them feel too comfortable with you. If they feel like you are content they will lose interest. They want someone who is excited not just about where he is but also about where he's going.

2006-12-04 14:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0 0

some girls want money, but I am not that kind of girl. I love when a guy makes me laugh. I like that he is intelligent, and passionate about life. I want a man that knows what he wants and respects what I want at the same time. I want a wonderful man that is concerned about me (in a good way) He has to make me feel like the only girl in the world. He has to be charming and considerate, respectful. I have all of this already. it's really nice. I love spontaneatiy, not too much though

2006-12-04 14:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 1 0

Stop looking. Asking what do women want is way to broad of a question. Every woman wants something different. When your ready for the right girl she'll come along. Being with someone just to say your with someone is probably the dumbest thing that people do. Take your time, but don't give up on women were not all crazy!

2006-12-04 14:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Topaz 3 · 1 0

I look for someone sweet, honest, open and passionate, someone who I am attracted to physically and mentally, someone intelligent who can make me laugh, that is important. Try not to seem careless, this may give girls the wrong impression, that you in fact don't care. Just be yourself, you will meet the right girl eventually. You sound like a nice guy from what you described.

2006-12-04 14:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

From dating experience, laid back can seem uninterested. I like for a guy to be passionate. Not really like fighting, but to pay attention to little things. Give her a hot look and smile every once in a while and communicate with her and I mean your real feelings. Dont let too much slide or she will think you dont care and may take advantage. I like an outgoing, sometimes obnoxious guy who cant say no to me and gives me alot of attention. Trust me, he will get good lovin from me if I know he really cares!!

2006-12-04 14:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Most girls just want someone honest and real. From what u describe u seem like the perfect man and if I wasn't a single mom, I would go after u myself! Be patient, I am sure you are going to find someone real soon!
Good Luck!!

2006-12-04 15:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by rleerose_3 2 · 0 0

What i look in a girl for, is a sweet caring and loving heart, a great personality, no booze, no smoking, no drugs, hold it in till marriage, being open with me when they are upset, and a great healthy body. <-- about that last one, dont get me wrong, its just my preference, everybody has a preference for different things, so no offense and dont call me shallow because its a definite turn off for me if a good looking girl acts like a jerk to me. I wont even be her friend. Friends i am much more lenient with. If you respect me and i respect you and we enjoy talking to each other, then great! :), you can be my friend... sorry since im a guy answering a question meant for girls only to talk about guys... but i couldn't help myself, girls are fun to talk about too! ;)

2006-12-04 14:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Regenerit 2 · 0 0

I look for someone who's caring and takes the time to make me feel special.

Maybe you aren't looking in the right places? Bars are not good for finding a relationship. Try church, or someother community function.

2006-12-04 14:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 1 0

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