i fell in love with this guy a while back he dumped me bad i found out that he had been cheating on me for some really wired reason i can not get over him or i have i just think about him all the time it is getting better but what do i do ? i am scard to get into another serious relationship cuz of it i date all the time but it dose not help? Pleaz Pleaz help lol corny i know
2006-12-04 14:20:25 · 4 answers · asked by murphy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is perfectly normal for you to keep thinking of him even after you broke up with him. After all, for quite some time, you had given him a special place in your heart, and it will not be easily removed from your mind. It may sound old-fashioned, but you must let 'time' do its work on your feelings. The key is to 'let it go'; acknowledge and accept the fact that he had dumped you, and the relationship will forever be broken, irrepairable. Accept that you must go on with your life. You don't need to try hard to forget about him, just don't dwell on it too much. Instead of looking backward and regretting all that had happened, look forward to the future, and trust that what the future has in store for you will be better and brighter.
2006-12-04 14:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Christian - acct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life. Because he's not thinkinng of you I'm sure. Just think that if he was cheating on you then he DOES NOT love you & DIDN'T love you. Forget about that loser! There are many mnay more men in the world A WHOLE LOT BETTER THAN HIM! Go find yourself someone who is going to worship the groung that you walk on.
2006-12-04 22:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by tigrababy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm I dont know if it would be wrong but its happened to me I tried so hard to get over one of my ex boyfriends and the problem was that.. I didnt find a guy until now... that I really really liked as much as I liked him until now, so I think its normal everyone goes through that atleast once in there lives until they find that someone for them, not saying everyone finds that person or anything or that love exists but.. like.. okay in the past... I've dated alot of guys ( not to brag) but i hit a stage in my life where I thought i liked a guy and wanted to break it off like 2 weeks later and stuff.. so thats how i got into all this crap.. but its not only my fault though.. okay so... I had.... this guy... cheated on me with my best friend, I didnt forgive him for it, I would have been more understanding like if he was honest but he wasnt he denied it even though I had proof on it( not that I spied on him) and I still liked him after that even though it was painful... and then... uhm... My first high school boyfriend.... I really liked him alot... we broke up..he liked someone else( he was super protective) he wouldnt take me back.. i didnt date anyone til like... 6 months after that.. because I couldnt find anyone that I would like as much as him.. until later on.. I had such a hard time getting over him.. but eventually i did now Im in grade 11... so I know how you feel, I didnt date for a while because I thought every guy was going to treat me like crap and have a hard time trusting anyone because of guys and not only men like women to, my girlfriends arent so trust worthy, sorry to say about that, but so its hard for me to get close to certain people. ayhow I hope that helped... how old are u... give me some more background on the sitatation
2006-12-04 22:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time but eventually u'll move on.
2006-12-04 22:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋