I REALLY don't wanna go back tomorrow!?

Question

I don't wanna go back to school tomorrow. I'm all stuffed up because of my allergies and this guy is out to get me cuz I told on him for saying nasty things to me. He glares at me and says mean things about me and I don't feel like dealing w/ it. What should I do? Any happy thoughts that could help me tomorrow?thanks!

Answer 1

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 2

This is a very common issues amongest teenagers and I will tell you if you focus on your school work and ignore this person he will soon "give it up" and you have to remember most of us as adults don't ever see these people again when we become older and wiser. The problem with a bully is they are having the real issues and taking out thier pain on you. Don't let this get to you and the more you act as you don't care about what they think they will start to bully someone else who they think is weaker than them. As you get older you realize the bully is the one who is weak and there is an underlying issue to why they act this way. Remember the saying "misery loves company".

Answer 3

if u dont wana go back to school coz ur scared of what this guy might say or do, y dont u change schools or get a restraining order on him from the police??

Answer 4

Get a bunch of friends around, and then jump him in the parking lot after school.
On the other hand, maybe he just likes you. You could always be like- wanna be my babydaddy?

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Smirk at him and laugh. Don't let him see he intimidates you or it will continue. And act like he bores you.

Best of luck tomorrow.

Answer 7

just ignore the guy, i had that happen to me once, it really got to me, to the point where i didnt go to school, then i just started to ignore him, and believe me in the end he will go away, it will take time, but it works.

Answer 8

if things happen report it to the school counselor/office at once. you can't stay home and avoid the situation.

Answer 9

You aren't sick to miss school, you are sick because you are scared...Tell the Principal or teachers and GO TO SCHOOL. Good luck, Kitty

Answer 10

Laugh at the guy. This will get to him.