the been seeing this guy for more than a year. we meet usually twice a month, dont much talk on the phone, maybe twice a week. but we been together, dating for more than a year. by the time fell in love with him, so i decided to tell him. we met on friday night, and i asked him what he think about our relationship and replied he's not sure, he dont know yet. i kinda got hurt, so i said alright then see u around, i would move on, i want to make an commitment.. but then he goes no no we will meet again.. at the end of the meeting he was leaving and i said alright then thats it... and he said just from ur side... what does that mean? is he interested in me, or he need more time... but we been together for more than a year.. how long do u need to know the person... is he kinda playin, and jus interested in my body or he really need time... plz help
2006-12-04 13:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by alisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a part time relationship. He seems to be comfortable with the status quo and he has no inclination of growing it at all. Just doesn't want it to end -perhaps because of benefits he is unwilling to give up? You want more and you are not likely to get it from him. Even if he did start a more involved schedule now he would not be doing it because he wants to. You are spinning your wheels with him. Use your free time to look for someone who loves you and wants to be with you all the time.
2006-12-04 13:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by gatzap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. this was me two years ago. he still won't commit and i finally am moving on but i've wasted almost 4 years of my life and passed up other men that would have probably treated me good and gave me more time.
2006-12-04 21:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't interested in a real relationship. If he isn't ready to commit after a year, and he can't let go, then you have to do it for yourself.
2006-12-04 21:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by sassy sue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alisha, I think he's playing you. Why should he think about commitment when he gets what he wants twice a month and then no strings attached.
2006-12-04 21:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes a playa just dont get to far wit it for now
2006-12-04 21:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Doh Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is keen on having a simple sex with u and leave u on streets
2006-12-04 21:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just move on cuz he would of know by now. so just move on
2006-12-04 21:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by melissadinon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋