i'm a bad person?

Question

i killed my baby i'm only 16 and i wasnt ready for a child i feel gulity should i?

Answer 1

yes but you were not ready i was born when my mom was 16 and she , insted of killing or abonedoning me , i was addopted by a wonderful family if it happens again and you have a femaile , give them the date you had your first period so shel will be ready . i hope this helps ypu e mail me : [e-mail]

Answer 2

i don't understand? if you mean you had an abortion, then if that's what you felt was right at the time, then that's your choice,and unfortunately you are gonna have to live with that. but you obviously feel guilty and remorse so maybe it wasn't the best decision after all!
if you mean you murdered your baby, then yes you are a bad person, there are other options, you could of gave it up for adoption if you couldn't of coped, if that's what you mean then i hope you are joking, i suggest you edit your question to stop the confusion on you 'murdering' you child and get a proper answer to your question.
if you ARE telling the truth. either abortion or the unthinkable, you need to seek help and professional advice ASAP.

Answer 3

You didn't "kill" a "baby" you terminated a pregnancy. "Baby" refers to a BORN human, if you aborted you had not given birth, therefore you terminated a pregnancy, even women who have "miscarriages" actually have spontaneous abortions, they don't "kill" their "babies" it is just a spontaneous termination of a pregnancy, an abortion is a medical terminiaton of a pregnancy. All that is different is the spontaneous/medical...I suggest you get some counseling and put this behind you.
BTW you are NOT a bad person...maybe made an error in judgement but that doesn't make you "bad". The BAD ones are the ones who will tell you that you are Bad and have committed murder.

Answer 4

Nothing is wrong & right. It's simply of our personal desires, personal taste & personal sense of self at the moment. It's a matter of how we wish to re-present ourselves in any given moment in time.

No such a thing as right & wrong, there is only what works & what doesn't work, given what it is one is trying to do.

No matter what the offense, no matter how major the damage inflicted, nothing is more powerful than forgiveness in allowing us to go on.

This prayer might helps;

God, thank you for this wonderful life! I am so grateful! And how I have enjoyed it! Even the dramas. Even the "bad" moments. My only wish is that I could have moved through it all without hurting so many others. Please God, help me to find a way to forgive myself for those transgressions. I remember every one of them---even the ones that not another living soul knows about or suspects. Help me to remember my offenses with a gentle compassion, and grant me the grace to feel good about myself in spite of myself. And thank you, God, for all the good times, all the abundant joy, all the laughter and all the love.

Answer 5

No human on this planet is worthy of answering this question, even if you asked, "I like chocolate, do you?" you are going to get 10,000 mixed comments, so if you took anyones advice on here, you are only taking it because that's how you already felt in the first place, NOT because anyone on here is technically right. From the day man was made, there has been killing, for money, for land, for rights, for pretty much anything, you are no different than anyone else in this human race,
Take care!

Answer 6

i don't know how to answer this question!!! i feel like someone should shake the crap out of you and ask you what you were thinking!!! but on the other hand you are just a baby yourself (no punt intended promise). i honestly think that adoption would have been the best option. you killed your baby (your baby) why shouldn't you feel guilty!!!!

Answer 7

it was quite bad to be honest because all those people out there who cant have children why couldn't you give that child to them
i was 15 the first time i was pregnant i was going to keep it and get my mum to help me but something bad happened and i lost the child

but you must have your reasons and if that's what you have done then its what you got to live with sorry if it sounds nasty but its true

Answer 8

what do you mean kill? you mean abortion right? because if you kill him or her you are a bad person.if you get an abortion that another thing.i din't say it a good thing but you'll get pass it dont worry.you might remember it sometimes but not all the time.

Answer 9

when you did that you was bad. now you can be a good girl,you still a child .just make love with your husband in the futuer,you will be ready to love your child.i hope GOD forgive you.

Answer 10

NO YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON BUT, IF YOU CANT DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES THEN DO IT. MAYBE YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT YOUR ACTIONS BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE GOING TO REGRET.