2006-12-04 13:17:44 · 19 answers · asked by ** I Broke his Heart** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow iam sorry!!! Did you get a 2nd opinion just to make sure??? If not i would reccomend doing that,sometimes doctors can make a mistake.My friend just found out the same thing....she is ok with it cuz she never found a decent man to have kids with anyways.Have you ever thought about adoption??My little brother was adopted and he is the most wonderful person!! Good luck to you!!!
2006-12-04 13:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it may feel like it right now, it's not the end of the world. First, the doctor could be wrong. Second, there are so many treatments or alternatives. Third, there are other options such as adoption. Or you may consider foster parenting. There's a huge need for good homes for kids that don't have one. Chin up..........you will work it out. And you can have an incredible life even if it's not exactly as you thought it would be. Make the best of your situation, and you'll find you won't miss out on a thing life has to offer. What do they say? "When life hands you lemons, make lemonade!" Best wishes to you. :)
2006-12-04 21:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would definitely get another opinion, or two for that matter. Just to be sure. Then if you are told by more than one physician you can't have kids I would look at other avenues such as adoption. There are many kids out there in this world today that need loving families.
2006-12-04 21:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by medicswife23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe it. I got told it and i was not taking as much pre-caution as I should have been and I am 2 months pregnant now because I never thought I could have kids.
If you want kids stop thinking about it. I am sure it will happen at the right time otherwise seek advice somewhere else and there is always alternative ways of falling pregnant.
2006-12-04 21:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by bvbw81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please consider adoption. There are so many children who need homes. I have a son but when I look at him, I don't think, "Oh, I gave birth to him.." He just was one day part of the family and has been that way ever since, and has his own personality. When you give love as a mom, it really does not matter if you gave birth to them or not. Trust me, with your kids, whether born to you or adopted, it doesn't matter because you love them for who they are, not where they came from.
2006-12-04 21:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adopt
2006-12-04 21:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have lots of fun having sex with the one you love.
There are many children out there that need loving parents -- adoption is the greatest gift you can give a child.
I can't have children either. It was tough at first, but I have learned to deal with it.
2006-12-04 21:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you found out, but dr can be wrong..I know a lady who was checked out told she would never have kids..too much damage inside..she adopted...then had 2 kids..........
2006-12-04 21:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you can always adopt...I know its not the same...but you can still love an adopted the same...dont give up all hopes....I wish you the best...
2006-12-04 21:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adopt, that way you help yourself and a kid that was left alone due to negligence....
2006-12-04 21:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋