I've tried to avoid having eye contacts with them at all cost...dressing decent clothes - I even wear turtle neck sweaters quite often now since the weather is getting cold. Yet I still can't live a day without at least 2 guys bothering me for my #...I already have a boyfriend that I love so I don't need any more attention from the other guys...Maybe I should yell at their face so they would leave me alone? I'm being very seriously about this question. Please serious answer only...I know many girls have experienced it quite often, would you mind sharing your strategies as in avoiding unwanted attention?
2006-12-04 13:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Lana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell them you're taken!
2006-12-04 13:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I can tell you that there is probably nothing you can do to stave off advances. Men are just that way and there is no work around that I can see. It is a shame if you tell them you aren't interested and they persist. Even a wedding ring is no good for deflecting that kind of attention...however, I think you were dead on when you suggested yelling at them. You know who doesn't receive any unwanted attention? The office b*tch!! Serious!
Of course I am not advocating actually yelling at them because that might not be good depending on time and place. But you could word your answer in such a way as to curb future attempts...
2006-12-04 21:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by jay_fox_rok_god 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gurl i know how you feel, but to keep it real with you i gotta let you know that it's kind of hard to do. Men will be men and go after what they want. I assume you got it going on. Don't let them stop you from being comfortable. Even though you have man, you still deserve to look sexy! If you got it flaunt it! So don't worry about dodging them boyz and yellin probably isn't gonna make em stop, esp. if they tryna get at you in a turtle neck. they best way to get rid of a bug-a-boo is to ignore them. eventually they'll go away. But as long as you show them you notice them by changin your outfit or commenting, they gonna stay around! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-04 21:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by *DeLiCiOsA* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lana, I have the same problem but you know what it's a free country and guys do what they please but when they ask your number simply say I have a boyfriend thank you.Tell them you are a lady in case they haven't noticed and girls should not accept that behavior and nonsence and you should not be treated in such manner!
2006-12-04 21:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT HAPPENS TO ME AND ALOT OF OTHER GURLS BUT IF U DONT WANT THE ATTITION GET FAT GAIN LIKE 200 POUNDS
AND DRESS SOOOOO FUGLY AND MAKE YOU FACE ALL DIRTY SO U GET PIMPLE AND DONT TAKE A SHOWER SO U SMELL BAD THEN NO 1 WILL LIKE U K!!!
2006-12-04 21:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by ?PARIS HILTON? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you don't want this attention. Seems nice to me. But anyway, you should tell them you don't want that attention unless their going to date you.
2006-12-04 21:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Stephy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you must be tripping it shows that your pretty and you dont have to be rude about it just simple say im taken sorry fellas and move on
2006-12-04 21:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Orlando 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your indenile, you like the attention, so why come to yahoo answers to expose it, you must not be very cute
2006-12-04 21:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never happen until you get out of shape.
2006-12-04 21:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by C MAGIC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't iook at them,don't talk to them eather.
2006-12-04 21:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kaitlin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do..you need to let them know you are spoken for..
2006-12-04 21:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋