If their was someone you were interested in, and they were engaged more than once, but never ended up getting married. Would you be REALLY hesitant in pursuing a relationship? Or even stay away from that type of situation?
2006-12-04 13:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, it would depend on how old they were, and never married...rather than if they had ever been engaged or not...
2006-12-04 13:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well .....would you call off an engagement to some one you didnt want to be with for the rest of your life? If you are not happy, you will make the necessary ajustments to pursue that happiness!!!!
If that someone said yes to the proposal thinking that they would be will the other person for the rest of their life....things tend to change after the fact...people tend to get more comfortable with the other, in meaning the true self comes out. One might realize that they are not interested in that person after all! So if you dig the person...mention committment and see where it takes you! If all else fails.... that person was not meant for you, and you will later find your soul mate...he/she might be some one who you know and already care for! Good Luck!!
2006-12-04 13:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tiramisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the previous poster I would say it depends...how long ago? how long between engagements? how long did they last? what were the specific circumstances? Who broke it off?
Then one could also ask what's worse, someone who has had the presence of mind to know they don't want the relationship, or someone who went ahead with it anyway and is divorced multiple times? On the other hand he/she may want a commitment but are not sure what kind of person they want to be with.
2006-12-04 13:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by sassy sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have taken the 1st step and asked your self maximum of those questions. that is commendable, as that is being trustworthy. the subsequent step is what to do approximately it. you have been mutually for ten years. that is tremendously much like a marriage and you have hit a bump in the line. like countless bumps, that is dealt with after which moved on. for that reason, this is a reasonably super bump because of the fact which you're uncertain in case you're in love together with her. I advise that those themes which you have stated be dealt with via a qualified marriage counselor. !2 months is plenty away, whether it comes alot swifter than you will have self assurance and that is not trustworthy to the two of you in case you suppress your emotions. the themes will nevertheless be there and influence the marriage so later on. sturdy success, hun!
2016-12-13 03:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being engaged that says alot about character. their marriage material and I wouldnt see it as negative. Just because this person never got married, that means they know what they want and dont want to rush things.
2006-12-04 13:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always depends on the circumstances or reasons why.
It does make you wonder though.
2006-12-04 13:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
varies
2006-12-04 13:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by PublicSUD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not?
2006-12-04 13:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋