People have come and gone in my life, and love, if there ever was any to begin with, has eluded me. If you're relgious, I know that you will say that God loves me, I don't need God to love me. I need another human being to love me. Someone I can see, hold, touch and make love to. I respect your beliefs, but God's love just won't do it for me.
2006-12-04 12:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The best way to find it is to stop looking. Make yourself happy then love will find you. This isn't religious, it's just my own personal experience.
2006-12-04 13:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lostlove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you realize it or not, you are experiencing separation anxiety. The reason you have yearning for love is because you once had the only TRUE love, which comes from God. I know that doesn't help your yearning right now, but perhaps understanding this will enable you to "search" correctly. You will find a companion to fullfill the "hold, touch, make love" needs, but human love is only attachment and is not true, eternal love. I wish you success in your search for a companion, but consider seeeking *both* in order that all of your needs will be met.
2006-12-04 13:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want that someone as you say then first and for most tell yourself that you will have this special person in your life one day and believe this and this person will come to you, Only If you show love love YOU and focus on the fact that one will only receive such love when they themselves are this type of love. God knows just what you need, and he wants you to be happy after all he is a God of Love he created you to have these needs that you have expressed, Just get on w/ your life stop worrying about it and It will come when you least expected, It happened to me and I felt as you do at one time, But you must get on w/your life get busy w/other things and Love helping others and doing good for others, Then if it's for you, You will have this type of love
2006-12-04 13:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, God saw that it was not good for the man to be alone. I agree poor guy. Hey ya know what though, I don't think love is found. I think love has to be grown like in a garden. It takes a lot of work but all you need is good seed. There are plenty of good women who are looking for good men though so keep looking and don't give up. It is not an illusion. The first thing you want to look for though is a sense of humor.
2006-12-04 13:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Midge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear dear friend i "felt" that,,,, I would normally never tell anyone this as it is dis-heartening but you asked directly ,how. You may want to read Kahlil Gibran or rumi. The need you feel is a longing caused by the loss or lack of unity in man, it is a actually a desire to understand yourself to complete yourself. This longing is an unconscious desire to teach you about yourself and a relationship will give you this growth, a partner will hurt you in the ways best for your growth, ever notice the mind games people play. You can date "below" you and hurt them with truths of themself or you can date "above" you and they will hurt you with the truth of you. Either way you will come back to, you can not be fulfilled by another person. The best growth is given by someone stronger than you, as they teach you truths. Never date "below" you as this is a waste of time unless you want to help them see themselves clearer.
There is a rare and wondrous thing called "true love", now this only happens to two people that are of "pure heart". They need no growth and able to have a real love. I must say that these people are always selfless and caring to everyone around them and this is a gift bestowed by grace on them for their work.
The point is purify yourself by doing good things, be the best person you can be, forgive, let go of anger/blame and you may be lucky.
2006-12-04 13:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't a illusion, I have never been in love with anyone of the opposite sex but I love my family and my mutts and I can say it exists. Don't give up, I'm not going to tell you that you'll find the right one because I don't know that but it doesn't hurt to keep on trying. I've know people who have been in love for years and keep on loving each other if they can do it then others can too find and stay in love.
2006-12-04 13:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does exist. And I know this isn;t what you want to hear, but God love is the only love that will ever be in your life that will always be there and that you can always fall back on.
2006-12-04 13:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by emyloohoo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer likely no, however what maximum folk grow to take heed to to as love is actual only a delusion of what they think of the different guy or woman is, fairly than what the guy actual is. The honeymoon era actual. ultimately the grimy underclothes and butt scratching start to tutor :-) in case you nevertheless savour the enterprise of the different guy or woman in spite of everything the dangers are patently in view, then yup, you have genuine love. Or a very stable intimate friendship with somebody you may talk with and p.c. to share something of your existence with.
2016-10-14 00:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try eharmony it worked great for me! i found my husband within 6 months of waiting. Then I went to the pound and I got this awesome golden retriver! Both of which I hold touch and make love to!
2006-12-04 13:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit spending all your time on Yahoo! Answers, otherwise God is the only one who'll ever love you.
Awww... I only said that because I feel the same way too sometimes :(
2006-12-04 13:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Atlas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋