comfort a person who just got dumped?
2006-12-04 12:56:56 · 20 answers · asked by echo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend is a girl. she just got dumped.
2006-12-04 13:02:07 · update #1
dont bring up the other person... take their mind off of it as much as possible cuz chances are everything makes them think of that other person...
oh and try to help them not to go back to the other person... i mean you cant stop them but show them how great they are and how much they dont need the person who dumped them... make sure they dont beg the other person back
it takes much much much time... a gradual healin process... but just be a friend and make them as happy as possible and show that gettin dumped isnt the end of the world!!!
my friend is goin through the same thing!!! all you can do is be there for them in any way
2006-12-04 13:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with sex if it is a guy.
well for a girl, probably anything to take her mind off of it will do the trick. It could be introducing her to a hotter guy, taking her shopping, having a girls night out, or a girls weekend away. Pointing out all the reasons why she didn't want to be with him anyway. Basically encouraging any activity that will occupy the mind or time. Listening is good, but if you sit there and let her go on and on about the relationship that is now over, it may just make her more emotional and draw more attention to the fact that she was just dumped. The key is taking her mind off of it and helping her to forget.
2006-12-04 20:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by micah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for the person that got dumped , THe only thing I can tell you is to be there for that person!
I hope he/she will get over this soon!
2006-12-04 20:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them something sweet to eat, and have a sleep over with them. Stay up late at night watching movies and just talk with her. If I were just dumped, I would most likely want to have someone near me. Stay really near them until they feel ok. At least, that's what I think. Oh, and give them a make over or something... might make them feel better?
2006-12-04 20:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about these guys- the old saying that there are more fish in the sea is true. Someone else will come along,the hurt won't last forever, just right now. Have some fun and cheer up, its ok to live and like it.
2006-12-04 21:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by relaxed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, take your mind off it. why dont you take a dump on someone who has just been comforted
2006-12-04 20:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them he was an idiot and any1 who just dumps some1 for a stupid reason realli isnt worth a penny :)
2006-12-04 20:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them laugh like: "Remember that one time I asked you what the capital of New York was?" Hopefully she finds you funny.
Remember: You might want to give them advice too, and let them share their feelings because they are hurting.
2006-12-04 20:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them there are plenty of people out there and to let it pass. Tell the person everything shall change for good from these hurts and pains.
2006-12-04 20:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by AUCT!ON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him/her that the person who dumped them is a jerk, and won't realize what they had was special until it is too late.....but if the person got dumped b/c they had it coming, then idk what to say
2006-12-04 20:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋