i know this guy and he's pretty cool, i've known him for almost a year...
i want to be more than just friends but he doesn't realize whats in front of his face. i've helped him through a couple of girlfriends...and i want him to realize that i like him. it seems like he likes the girls who he has to chase...
how do i get him to "chase" me?!
or...
how do i get him to become more than just friends?
[do not answer "just tell him"] please! =]
also, i rarely ever see him at my school since it's SO big, but i do talk to him everyday online.
2006-12-04 12:55:46 · 10 answers · asked by jsmonkey013 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been there, done that. And you know what? Few years later you realize that none of them is worth chasing. It's all crap.
Concentrate on your school and 5 years later it'll be a lot more rewarding that getting into somebodies pants.
Don't waste your life on crap.
2006-12-04 13:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by TATAAAAAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should FLIRT. Give him all that needed attention every guy likes. He will then stop seeing you as a friend and something 'more than just friends'. If you talk online this is the perfect chance to flirt. See if he plays long with it. If he does, you're in luck.
2006-12-04 20:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I try to do in these difficult situations (haha) is lead them on. Flirt a lil. Show him what your made of in a non sexual way, at least at first... Show him that your really a good person and convince him in flirtery that you should be with him. If he talks about other girls or hes with other girls at the time your making your move, just smile. Dont get jealous, unless he likes jealous girls...but that'd mean he's full of himself... Anyway, be who you are and be all you can be. Simple as that. Like I said, show him that you mean business; that you deserve to be with him. FLIRT AWAY!!!
2006-12-04 21:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u only talk to him online it will be easier to tell him u like him. maybe he likes u but he doesn't kno u like him (sorry..i kno u have probably heard that a million times) just try to shift the conversation to the topic of boyfriends + girlfrienss, the nkinda tell him u like him. DO NOT GO INTO DETAILS!!! plz! don't it will make him even more incomftoble. if u don't go into details, u should be fin. i'm here for u
e-mail me at spatel2001@hotmail.com if u need sum more help
2006-12-04 20:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by punkypenguinUSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore ignore, if he really likes you he will chase you. But if you are assisting him through relationships and he has not tried to approach you in a more than friends manner.. your a friend. If he likes the girls he has to chase and you are right there your too accessible.....limit communication... occupy your time...
2006-12-04 21:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to tell him you like him just talk to him about it. Since you've been there for him through everything than he might like you. I have a friend just like that though i like him alot and he is like my best friend. I told hime i liked him and now we're together and we've been together for 2 years.
2006-12-04 21:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Near the end of the school year, plant a big one on him and run.
2006-12-04 20:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...since "just tell him" is off-limits...go out on a date with someone else. DON'T just pretend (lies come back to haunt you), just find someone nice and go out with them, then tell him about your dates. That could work.
2006-12-04 20:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say just gradually work up to it kind of give him the idea that you like him without really saying it. and ask him to a movie or something.
2006-12-04 20:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by groovyskaterdude91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on a date with another guy and tell him about guys even guy friends are proctective over their friends i hope everything works out
2006-12-04 21:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by valreemariecreed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋